I am starting to agree. I did this b/c I wanted low stress and balance. I have neither right now! There are some things I do need to change.
I need to not spend an hour of FF every morning when I should be getting school going. There is balance needed in this department. ; )
I need to not try to change our every other BD thing b/c of what an opk says. I tried to get DH to to 2 days in a row last month and it backfired (he's almost 49 ; ). That added a lot of stress and negativity.
I need to not start testing at 6 dpo (at least for this month). Last month, it really got to me for the first time.
As long as I can manage those things, I don't see the point in not doing the rest. Other than I said I would take this month off from it.
I'm coming to realize that its my total mindset that needs to be changed. I need to find some peace with the fact that I probably won't get a bfp this month (I'm 43) or maybe next month, or ever. My last baby might have been my last. I am working on getting that acceptance and peace. It, apparently, has nothing to do with whether or not I temp, use opks, etc. If I can grasp at least a bit of that acceptance, then the rest doesn't matter. I'm still working on that.
Still haven't dug those opks out.........but I want to.
Isn't there anyone who has done this and said it was GREAT?