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So, right around when I was supposed to O, my body decided it would decide to have a UTI. So, my symptoms started in the afternoon on CD 15 and I was on antibiotics CD15-CD18.

My CM pattern went from wet on CD 14 to pretty dry CD 15, so I assume I Oed on CD 14.

My question for you all is -- is it possible that my temps just looked like O due to my UTI and my body fighting a pending infection? I temped in the AM at 5:30 on Friday and didn't show symptoms till the afternoon (and my test barely showed any bacteria in the afternoon at the doctor). But is it possible? Could I really have Oed on CD 18 and I am really 9 DPO?

PLEASE let me know what you all think!!! I am DYING here with my very sore BBs, fatigue and BFNs...

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I don't think that your O date is wrong, based on looking at your chart, unless you think you actually had a fever at some point in there. Maybe you are just a late tester?? How long is your LP, usually?

Good luck, and I hope you get your BFP very soon!

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Oh- how frustrating! I agree that you're more likely 13dpo. Perhaps you will see a BFP. I've heard that 14dpo is the gold standard to test by.

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I didn't really have a fever, but thought maybe an infection could bump up my temp by enough to have a "fake" O jump.

I guess we'll see what tomorrow's IC says...I think I'll probably just keep testing until something happens...

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well its not over til af shows and according to your chart last month shes not even due til tomorrow

my 13dpo test was super faint http://canyouseealine.com/hpts/5152.jpg

but the result of that cycle is now 2 weeks old and napping with mommy

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I've been charting 2 months -- 1 month was a 12 day LP and one 13, so she would be due today or tomorrow...but I've consistently had a temp drop the day before she comes, so that's the really different thing. Plus the bb pain...especially in my armpits.

Wow...that is super faint! I need to start taking pictures...i really don't think I would've seen something that faint at 5:30 this morning in my bathroom.

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lol if you have only been charting 2 months you cant really say anything is consistent... and AF could even be due the day after tomorrow... it takes a while to start seeing what is normal for you.

and yeah... just give it time, you may have had a bfp you didnt even notice lol... fwiw mine took several days to get really obviously dark too... even my 15dpo one was faint, though dark enough I would have noticed it sleepy and in a bathroom (as long as I was using more light than a nightlight)

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Yeah....but I have to go with what I know so far, right? Nothing else for me to go on at this point, even if it's only two full months of data. I've read that your LP doesn't really change more than a day or so, so I can't imagine AF would be due ANY later than tomorrow at the latest. My cycles are fairly regular as well, so I just can't see that happening, but I guess you never know. I'll just have to wait and see what happens in the days ahead!

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LP shouldnt change by more than a day... but if your LP is generally 13 days... anything from 12 to 14 is within the range of normal.

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Okay...so if I don't get AF tomorrow (14 DPO) then I am definitely late...

MaerynPearl - Do you agree with ValH and swimmingduck that I did O on CD 14 and my UTI didn't mess up my temps?

Looking forward to seeing what my temp does tomorrow morning...I get so anxious about it I have a hard time falling asleep. How sad is that?

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Here's some baby dust for you! Maybe it's still just a little too early for you to test!
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Okay...so if I don't get AF tomorrow (14 DPO) then I am definitely late...

MaerynPearl - Do you agree with ValH and swimmingduck that I did O on CD 14 and my UTI didn't mess up my temps?

Looking forward to seeing what my temp does tomorrow morning...I get so anxious about it I have a hard time falling asleep. How sad is that?
no, if you dont get AF on 15dpo (making you have a 14 day LP, as opposed to a possibly normal-for-you 13 day LP... making 12-14 be your range of normal) then you are late.

But yes, I agree that your UTI didnt mess them up and you did O on CD14.

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Thanks for all of your help MaerynPearl!!!!!

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