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#1 of 2 Old 09-04-2012, 09:56 PM - Thread Starter
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Hello, I'm brand new here. Last month I very unexpectedly found out I was pregnant only to lose it 3 days later. I was so sad but quickly got back to everyday life and moved on. So my husband came home from the river boat and shortly Acer I started feeling pregnancy symptoms again: sore breasts, metallic taste in my mouth, I even had very light pink sportive about 6 days after he came home.So yesterday I read about checking my cervix so I felt it and it was very high and soft. When I checked it today it was very low and kinda hard. It has been 9 days since he came home and I've taken so many hpt- all negative. Am I out this month? I'm so confused
and torn.
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#2 of 2 Old 09-05-2012, 10:03 AM
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Are you thinking you could have conceived 9 days ago when your DH came home?  If so, it may be too early to get a positive hpt.  Your cervix is usually high and soft when you are fertile, around the time you ovulate.  It goes back down and gets firmer after you ovulate.  Not knowing your cycle, I couldn't really say what is happening.  You may want to wait a couple days and test again.  HPT's are more accurate around 14 days past ovulation.  Good luck!

I'm sorry for your loss. The same thing happened to me.

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