Thank you for the warm welcome. Another BFN this morning, 12 DPO. Trying to relax and let what is be, hard to do. Symptom spotting - it is SO hard to stop myself! And I just feel compelled to POAS! Not very zen I am exhausted, having crazy vivid dreams, increased discharge and my breasts are so sore. Could all be explained otherwise though. With my DD I had implantation bleeding, didn't know what it was then, and didn't test until the day AFTER my period was due (I thought the IB was the early start of my period). Nothing this week. Sigh. Should know by Monday! Baby dust to you all
I am a Mama who
Big hugs, Anya! Take time to take care of yourself and your beautiful family.
I would also be willing to take over the thread if no one else wants it :)
DD1 (03/09), DD2 (06/11), DS (01/14)
2014: 30/70lbs, 4/52 crafts
I had a hard day yesterday. I am hoping it is all over and it is just normal bleeding now. I haven't had any more cramping today. I am grateful that it was so early. have been reading about later losses and they sound unbearable.
We went to the ocean last night to see the sunset and say goodbye. I wrote up my experience. http://www.mothering.com/community/t/1366029/an-early-loss-just-processing
This reaffirms that I need to prioritize my health over having another baby right now. I need to find a way to regain equilibrium and lose the excess weight before I try again. I just have to give that to myself.
So I will be here, and for now I don't mind updating the thread. I do want to try again in a few months so I feel comfortable hanging out in waiting to be ready land. And I want to be here to see all of your BFPs!
Anya, glad you were able to watch the sunset and that you are taking time for yourself. Wishing you much comfort.
I am a Mama who
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Anya. Your story was very touching. It sounds like you are in a good place and I hope that you can continue thinking positive and getting healthy. Take good care of yourself during this time! Thinking of you.
AFM, AF came one day earlier than I was expecting her. So, onto next month for me. I guess you can move me to "Waiting to O?" The good news is that my cycle now seems to be a normal 28 days post-m/c (this is my 2nd period since my loss in August).
Hope everyone is doing well tonight!
Wife to Julian, stay at home mama to DD (10.01.13)!
MTHFR Homo C677T
08.12, 12.12, DD born 10.13
I got a faint positive on a wondfo and FRER today that even DH could see. I guess it would be time to move to graduated even though I'm a little concerned that it is early at 11 dpo. Well, hopefully it will stick.
Momma (25) to DD (almost 4) and TTC #2. Married to DH (almost 27) living the , , ,,, life and hoping to and
Congrats Nerrisav! I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and birth
JustJenny and DH of 20 years
After a 2 year fertility struggle - Baby girl is here! Jan 8th 2014
2 Boxer Furbabies Buddha and Tootsie
Nerissav, congrats! I hope for a happy healthy pregnancy for you!
Sarah, glad to hear things are looking normal for you, sorry you didn't catch it this month, but hope for next month!
AFM, I am in a good place. Moments of sadness, but I didn't have much time to feel pregnant... I am wondering how I am going to make the healthy changes I need to make. Right now I feel afraid to work out when I had the loss just a few days ago. I keep wondering if I am going to bleed heavy again. I think not, but I want to be careful. I am taking St Johns Wort and it is helping with my mood and optimism. I am sort of cheerful by nature, but have been sort of depressed and anxious for a while. I want to get back to center. I wish I could go on one of those health/weight loss retreats. I feel like one week of good habits would snap me back onto the path...
Anya, I am so sorry. I am inconsistent too due to not feeling 100% about everything either.
Me 28, DH 31 , 2 Kitties and working towards having Baby #1.
“The past has no power over the present moment.” Eckhart Tolle
Lida, I saw your offer to take over the threadkeeping for while and I appreciate it. I think I will give it another few weeks and see how it feels. I just don't want to leave this lovely community and I think it is god for me to remember why I need to take care of myself - so i can try again soon!
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