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anyalily 12-01-2012 06:04 PM

for Dec. 2 to Dec. 9

posted by alexisyael in 2004:

The One Thread is designed for all on the MDC board. No matter where you are in your cycle, you are welcome to join the One Thread! We are also open to those who are "Waiting to be Ready" for one reason or another. We continue to embrace those of us who have become pregnant as well. Feel free to jump in at any time and introduce yourself!

To help keep the list current and manageable, members will be deleted after a month of not posting to a One thread.

Please make add/remove/change requests in Bold.


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Big congrats to you all!!


Graduate Thread in I'm Pregnant

 (the current thread keeper can update the graduate link as needed)


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JustJenny 12-01-2012 06:51 PM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANYALILY!! jumpers.gifjumpers.gifjumpers.gif   Enjoy your special day!



Welcome diaperjunkie!


AFM - 12dpo and tested negative today. I expected it as I don't feel even the slightest bit preggo.  Monday I'm going to call and get us set up for some thorough exams at a fertility clinic. Its overdue and we are both ready for the next step. 

dakipode 12-01-2012 06:56 PM

Happy birthday, anyalily!!!partytime.gif Hope you have a fun night!


JustJenny: having a plan is good, I hope you can get an appt soon and maybe get some reassurance or answers.

sparklemaman 12-02-2012 05:36 AM

Happy Birthday, AnyaLily!! jumpers.gif Enjoy your day.

CDsMom1031 12-02-2012 07:38 AM

Thanks for the new thread.

Happy birthday!

SuzieSmiles 12-02-2012 09:49 AM

Happy Birthday anyalilybirthday.gif Hope you have a wonderful day!!!


JustJenny please keep us in the loop with your appointment, etc. really hope you get some answers soon.


wave.gifHi to everyone else!

FreedEm11 12-02-2012 10:07 AM

Happy Birthday Anyalily!!

Here's to a week of bfps for everyon in 2ww!

FreedEm11 12-02-2012 10:09 AM

...and sticky eggs and lots of BD for those of us waiting to O. :-)

samy23 12-02-2012 11:41 PM

Happy Birthday Anyalily!


AFM I am 3 DPO today and ordered some pregnancy tests over the weekend, so waiting for them to arrive probably tomorrow. When to start testing though? I will start as soon as the tests are here I bet! When is everyone else testing?

WildDoula 12-03-2012 12:50 AM

I'm a little late, but happy birthday Anyalily! joy.gif

JustJenny 12-03-2012 08:54 AM

AF is here this morning. Anyalily could you move me to waiting to O, please. 

Jillgayle 12-03-2012 11:37 AM

Happy Belated, AnyaLily!


Samy23:  Good luck on your 2ww- I am right there with you (8 dpo). AF is due  Sunday so trying to hold out till then.


JustJenny:  Wishing you the best in the next steps!  Keep us posted. Actually, if you feel like sharing, I would love to hear what those initial appointments look like and what to ask for.


AFM: I am both symptom spotting and feeling pretty negative. It is not really a good place to be.  I have even gone so far as to start to look up vitex and maca, and even perimenopause symptoms (I am 35).  I know that I have not been TTC very long, but with the first it was so quick that I am getting very discouraged.  


Anyone have positive experiences with vitex or maca (or both)? How much do you take? When?  At what point did you decide it was time for these types of interventions, or others like acupuncture? I know that there are some other MDC threads on this and will look there too. 

JustJenny 12-03-2012 03:36 PM

Jillgayle- Sure, I don't mind sharing what happens at the appointments. I understand being in a negative place, believe me. I am 36, dh is 41 and I think all the information about "advanced age" really adds to the pressure and anxiety. It doesn't matter how long you've been ttc. It hurts with each bfn. Plain and simple. It can be so tough keeping anxiety and disappointment at bay.  I believe it was Dakipode  who recently said that she had went to do early testing right towards the beginning of her ttc journey. I think that is really smart imo. I can't help but think if I had done that it would have relieved so much of my anxiety. Clear any illusions up, ya know?

           You asked about vitex and maca. I tried vitex and had to give up on it because of some serious gastro issues. Too bad to because its worked for a lot of people. I'm on my 4th month of Maca. I'm not pregnant obviously, but I like the way I feel.  Unfortunately I may have to stop as I've noticed it has shaved 2 days of my luteal phase. I'm taking 3 pills a day for a little over 1,000 mg. 

WildDoula 12-03-2012 05:15 PM

Vitex really helped me after my miscarriage, helping my body to regulate again. I took 2 capsules a day. Now I'm drinking the Fertilitea, which has chaste tree berry in it (Vitex). My last AF was light and cramp free, compared to my normal heavy flow and constant cramping. Some say that it can affect your cycle length negatively if you have pretty regular periods, but it hasn't for me so far.

Stevi 12-03-2012 05:50 PM

Yeah, Vitex screwed up my cycles when I tried it years ago, but it did make AF completely cramp-free.

samy23 12-03-2012 11:43 PM

JustJenny Sorry to hear Af is here.


JillGayle you are doing well not to test yet! I will have by 8DPO, I'm 4 DPO today and losing patience for those pregnancy tests to arrive in the mail....but it's good really they are not here yet as I might have tested and wasted a couple because you can't get a true result this early! I'm thinking of testing from 6DPO if possible.


Anyone know about the temp rise after ovulation? My temp has only risen .2 and .1 since ovulation... which doesn't seem very high for a temp 'spike' after O...right? I was expecting more of a .3 or .4 temp rise..  thoughts? And if I am pregnant, my temp would be slowly rising each day...which it isn't so far.. at 1DPO and 2DPO it rose by .2 then 3DPO and 4DPO it went down .1 from the .2 spike. greensad.gif


Hi Stevi! wave.gif

KnitterMama 12-04-2012 05:27 AM

<---- waiting to O


Hey, all...been an interesting week or so for me because I'm officially training for a half marathon (just completed a full marathon Sept 30).  Halfs aren't that big a deal to me, I work up to that distance pretty easily.  I'm slightly concerned my training could affect TTC, but I also feel like maintaining my health and sanity are just as important.  I've never had my training (even full marathon training) affect my cycles, so I'm hoping that trend continues.  

Banana731 12-04-2012 04:20 PM

I hope you had a great birthday. Anyalily. Hey Stevi!

Afm- I'm either 13 or 10 dpo (if I even O'ed!) AF should have been here by now if it was thirteen :/

Thinking about running to the dollar store, but pretty sure all I'm going to get is a BFN!

LittleKind 12-04-2012 05:06 PM

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Hi girls! I have been gone for a while after my second miscarriage in September. I am juuuust starting to feel ready to get back on the horse. Maybe I'll try in January or February again.


Anyway, my doc gave a speech about "two miscarriages isn't a problem, its just bad luck, especially since you have a healthy son. There is no reason to think you have anything wrong."


I, however, think I could possibly use progesterone supplements or testing this time around. He said that, statistically, these make no difference. I have heard otherwise from pregnant women. 


What is your experience with progesterone prescriptions or even the creams? Is it crazy for me to just get some cream and start using a little during my two week wait on the cycle I go for it?


I'm at a place where I'm ready to try, but still terrified of another loss. I don't think I will try again if I have a third loss.


I'm going to post this in TTC after loss, too, but I "know" some of you and came to you first!

samy23 12-05-2012 03:13 AM

Banana Good luck with your testing! I will be joining you tomorrow, even though I'll only be 6DPO I can't wait any longer to test! Is it impossible to get a positive at 6dpo? I'll test anyway.


5DPO today and having some pre-AF cramping....

jessbe 12-05-2012 05:02 AM

Hi everyone just introducin myself.iv been crazy internet surfing because ive been off bc for 2 years and charting 3 currently 18dpo with another bfn but my temps are still high i clearly ovulated and have had major symptoms sorry if tmi. Extreme fatigue and nausea i dont want to even think about food so much i lost 5 pounds in 2 weeka diahrrea acne horrible back ache and i cried at the end of watching Elf the movie with will ferrell i mean come on now! I did spot for a few days at 7 dpo and bled for one and it stopped but my temps stayed high those days were extremely high doesnt help that my hubby and everyone around me is saying im preggo :-(

John16n33 12-05-2012 08:27 AM

So just wondering, but do any of y'all have any long term personal goals out side of getting pregnant?  Knittermama's  post got me thinking and I told Dh last week that I have a goal of completing the Honolulu Marathon in December 2014.  I am hoping I get pregnant fairly quickly and can start seriously increasing my mileage after the baby is born.  I am a beginner runner by far (2.6 miles being the longest I have run at once), but I plan to try and run my entire TTC/pregnancy journey and maybe increase my mileage some during it.

Stevi 12-05-2012 08:47 AM

Hello Samy23! Glad to see you back in the game!


And Hiya Banana731


AAM...   This cycle is looking like another bust. So much for Clomid and Progesterone. I had a fever last night (8dpo) of over 101, and it appears to be from Bronchitis. Bronchitis is my arch enemy. The antibiotics I took for it during my first pregnancy is why I think I miscarried. So, now, I refuse to take antibiotics of any kind after or near ovulation.

John16n33 12-05-2012 10:02 AM

Stevi- I hope you start feeling better soon!  I have a tendency to get bronchitis along with any other illness I get so I know the pain. :(

KnitterMama 12-05-2012 11:32 AM

Originally Posted by John16n33 View Post

So just wondering, but do any of y'all have any long term personal goals out side of getting pregnant?  Knittermama's  post got me thinking and I told Dh last week that I have a goal of completing the Honolulu Marathon in December 2014.  I am hoping I get pregnant fairly quickly and can start seriously increasing my mileage after the baby is born.  I am a beginner runner by far (2.6 miles being the longest I have run at once), but I plan to try and run my entire TTC/pregnancy journey and maybe increase my mileage some during it.
YEAH! You go with your bad self! There are a bunch of pregnancy runner blogs and such, but I haven't found too much for TTC. And AW! Honolulu! I'm jealous. I think that's a great goal. I deferred one of my marathon registrations this year, and I told SO if I miss it next year because I'm pregnant I'm naming that kid "Marathon". Bwahaha.

John16n33 12-05-2012 03:47 PM

Honolulu is awesome but I miss having seasons lol.  I wouldn't sign up for that marathon if I didn't live here though, travel is way too expensive!

Lidamama84 12-05-2012 05:41 PM

Lucky you, john16n33; I would LOVE to live somewhere warm and sunny year-round!!! I really hate the cold, and get majorly depressed every winter. Too bad Canada doesn't own any nice warm islands...cause I do love the free Medicare!!!

I was actually thinking about long-term goals lately too, as I'm starting to see my kids get older, I'm starting to feel the urge to "re-discover" myself. One of my goals is to run a 10k...I'm just a real newbie to running, but I love the high...currently, I'm working on building up my ability to breathe while running; at lunch I have a 3k route that I do 2min running, 1min walking. I've been with a co-worker once or twice, and that was so much fun...I wish I could run with someone each time...I hardly noticed the time pass. My other goals are to spend more time doing crafts (sewing, knitting, crochet, etc.), and become better and faster at them, and I'd also really like to become certified as a doula and possibly a childbirth instructor...all in good time, lol.

John16n33 12-05-2012 10:28 PM

Lidamama- It's nice, but I admit I miss having seasons.  I actually like cold weather though.

Banana731 12-05-2012 10:59 PM

Lidamama- I love crafting! I find it to be very fulfilling.

I'm having a bit of a hard time believing it, but I got a BFP tonight O.o

I was feeling a little off today, so I went out and got a test. My cycle was so off this month, I barely got any EWCM. I was really convinced that it wasn't in the cards for me and I was okay wih that. But now I have to readjust. It's a little harder than I thought.

samy23 12-05-2012 11:38 PM

Banana Congrats!! Maybe you're in a little shock about it? How exciting,I hope I'll be joining you in the next few days!


Other goals besides TTC? Financial ones mainly for me.


AFM 6DPO today and my temp went up .2 so that's a good sign hopefully. Pregnancy tests have still not arrived in the mail so I still can't test and it's driving me a bit crazy! But I don't want to go to the store and buy one when I've already paid enough for the ones in the mail...agh!

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