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#61 of 211 Old 12-18-2012, 03:58 PM
 
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Lida your situation is kind of what I'm aiming for w/DP winky.gif I figure we have all the time in the world for a relationship, but only limited time to make babies and he feels similarly, thank god! 

 

Xerxella-I've not heard of parsley, but I have heard of mega doses of Vit C. I'd be having a chat w/my body too no matter which way you choose to go. Good luck and blessings to you.

 

FEimusic, I'd be testing tomorrow morn if I were you too!! Good Luck!! Hopefully you'll be able to join a due date club instead of hanging out here lol though of course you're welcome wave.gif

 

AFM-DP and I walked thru a house for sale this afternoon for a smokin awesome price. 1/2 acre lot, on a quiet dead end road, non-livable house-which I thought, "surely it can't be THAT bad" lol I was so wrong. Ugh. It was pretty beat up, w/nicotine & grease stains and stinky moldy pee pee smell, oh man it was bad, but sooooooo much potential. We're both pretty frugal and have experience w/construction and remodeling so it was exciting to ponder the possibilities of the house and land. It had some out buildings w/potential too so it'll be interesting to see where it goes. Apparently DP's mom offered to help finance it if he wanted to take the project on. I guess they've built and/or flipped a lot of houses over the years...


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Hey ladies...

 

I'd love to join in. We are on our first month of TTCing our third. For the last few months I've been off BC but haven't been able to TTC due to some medical stuff I had to get cleared for first (all set there, thankfully). So I've been waiting and waiting since we decided we were ready a few months ago but couldn't try. DS was conceived on the first try and DD took 6 months so I have experience with both. I hope it goes quickly this time. I know you all know how easy it is to get obsessed with all of this. I follow CM and CP (can't temp this time since I frequently work nights) and I thought for sure my OPK would be pos today but nope, BFN. I just want to get this show on the road! Sigh.

 

I hate feeling this impatient and I'm not even in the 2WW yet! I'm trying so hard to chill out since I remember this from last time where I was so anxious every step of the way at first and as the months rolled by it was just harder so I'm trying not to get all wrapped up in it from the get go this time. So far that plan is not going so well! blush.gif Anyhow, hopefully I'll get the pos OPK tomorrow and until then we'll be BDing just in case! lol.gif


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Good luck FEimusic hope you get your BFP, keep us updated!

 

Welcome katiecornflakes!

 

Xerxella I hope the parsley works for you...

 

Prescott and Lida, I think that no matter your age, when you decide you're ready for a baby, time is suddenly of the essence, regardless of how much of it you supposedly have. I'm 28 and I know friends and family have all said over and over: "Oh, you've got plenty of time" but the fact of the matter is, when you want a baby you want one like right now -- it feels no less urgent even though statistically speaking it probably is. 

 

Coati -- Bonne chance with the surgery. Hope everything goes well. 

 

AFM I'm pretttttty sure I'm 1 DPO today. I'm typically a slow-riser as far as BBT goes so I like to take a couple days to confirm but based on past patterns I'm thinking the ship has sailed. So begins the tww! But with the amount of trains, planes and automobiles we're about to be on, I'm hoping it's a quick and distraction-filled two weeks.

 

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I've been stalking this forum. I'm 3 dpi and quite excited!!
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Thought I'd share this; hope December is as lucky for me as it was for all these ladies ;)

 

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/9736126/Sexy-time-December-11-is-most-fertile-day-of-year.html


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katie - Welcome.gif I hope your stay here is short and sweet!

coati - January is coming up fast! Good luck!

justjenny - You know, there are tons of stories of women getting pregnant quickly after the HSG. Sometimes the fallopian tubes just have a slight narrowing and the HSG fluid forces them more open. I have to say it certainly sounds like that's what happened for you. I'm hoping for a quick BFP for you now! smile.gif

prescott - That sounds like it's got great potential. But, it sounds like it would almost be a tear down! That's a lot of work. But, I LOVE houses and everything about them. Good luck with whatever you decide!

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hi im new here, dont know all the acronmys yet lol

but im trying to conceive, had an early miscariage in oct and now trying again. im 36 so ive left it a bit late and hoping it works.

im now waiting for the begining of january to see if it worked this month. going a bit crazy and googling everything preganancy related.lol

no symptoms yet, so fingers crossed.

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Still here, mamas. I wanted to pop in and share this with other mamas: http://www.lovenaturalbirth.com/conscious-conception.html

 

I really love the idea of a language shift of "trying to conceive" to "opening, allowing, and receiving." I think a lot of the inner work I have in this journey focuses on letting go of the "need" to have a rainbow baby. If I hadn't miscarried my first pregnancy this year, I would have a "due date" on the winter solstice. Instead, I miscarried twice more. I enter a very emotional time, surrounded by a season so focused on birth when my own body lost so many babies this year. I had hoped that I'd have moved past the grief, and while I continue to make progress, I still can't imagine what it would look like to be "over it" without a healthy pregnancy.  My own children's birthdays start to seem near, and I try not to panic about the widening age gap.
 

Lida and Dakipode - I try not to think about age, too. Sometimes, I feel so bitter, to have had my first miscarriage at only 17, to have miscarriage after miscarriage at 25. My birthday comes in a few days, and as many wonderful mamas I know who conceived naturally in their forties, adding another year to my age just discourages me.

 

I try so hard to stay positive. I have some affirmations that I have placed on my water bottle to remind me of this.Does anyone else, especially those who have gone through multiple losses, have affirmations they'd like to share? I had so much trust in my body's ability to nurture a pregnancy in the past: I birthed both of my children out of hospitals. I really want to regain that.

 

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Revolting: Thanks for sharing that link. I definitely "feel" another child hanging around, waiting to join our family. So, even though I could and should be satisfied with my beautiful family, I don't feel like we are complete. And, while I don't have the experience of multiple losses, I can only imagine that it makes the feeling of someone missing that much stronger. I hope you can find a way to grieve your little ones lost and feel a sense of calm once more.

 

Prescott: Sounds like you have a great DP :)  Also, that house may have a lot of promise...only...I'm not sure I would want to tackle cleaning up strong smells while possibly in my first trimester...just a thought

 

Welcome to everyone new! Hope your stay with us is short!

 

AFM: I started feeling some nausea the last few days. I don't think it means anything, but maybe...Either way, I'm due for AF Jan 4, so we'll see then. I don't know when/if I O'd this month, so meh, probably just a bug. I have no idea how soon nausea can show up after conception, but I don't think this early...OTOH, I remember having some very early nausea with DD2, so maybe this is the same. Eeek!


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Ok, I know we're sposed to not be symptom spotting and such, but this is so out of the ordinary for me I have to ask..."anyone else have itchy breasts as an early sign?" hide.gif  cuz mine have been noticeably itchy and I've never experienced that before. Itchy hip bones are common for me during winter, but never itchy breasts lol and I haven't changed my laundry soap or shower gel or anything like that.

 

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Thanks for posting, Revolting.

 

prescott - have you been to twoweekwait.com ? If you haven't yet -- I apologize for introducing you to this time-sucking, obsession-inducing site :) But you can do specific searches and you'll read about lots of ladies on there who had your particular symptom during their tww (and incidentally many who say they had every symptom on BFN cycles and no symptoms on BFP cycles) ...It's entertaining (in a weird way only women who are ttc would think so) and can be informative to a point but I try to take it with a grain of salt!

 

Welcome Cindy and Serena!

 

Feeling pretty frustrated today as my temp this a.m. was way below coverline so I didn't O like I thought I did (despite a positive OPK 4 days ago!). The weirdness and the late O (it's CD 17 for me) is making me think this cycle is a wash...


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Serena - Welcome.gif I hope your stay here is short and sweet!

Revolting - Big hugs. grouphug.gif I was worried at one time about the age discrepancy that would be between child #2 and subsequent children, but then I realize every family is different and there really is no "perfect" age spacing. A closer spacing and they can really play together and relate to each other. A wider spacing and an older child can be more of a guiding influence while giving the younger child more time to just be themselves without the competition of a close sibling. I've seen very successful families in every imaginable combination. There's plusses and minuses to everything.

Revolting - IMO, maybe you should embrace your anger for a while. It's ok to be angry. You've been dealt a shitty hand. Once you let yourself be angry you can move on. Just my opinion. hug2.gif

Lida - High levels of progesterone can cause nausea. So, either you have a bean implanting and your progesterone is rising, you had a GREAT ovulation which just produced a lot of progesterone and there may or may not be a bean in there or it's the flu. wild.gif So, clear as mud....

prescott - Same thing as lida. dizzy.gif Progesterone causes sensitive nipples. So, maybe you just had a good ovulation or maybe a bean is making your progesterone rise. I really do think there is such a thing as beginners luck in TTC! blowkiss.gif

oasis - Could it just be a random temp dip? (Or dare I say implantation dip?) But, let's not worry about that... think zen... think zen... think zen.... namaste.gif

AFM - So mixed results from my bloodwork yesterday. HCG 154, but progesterone 5.4. (For those not obsessively following my story.. HCG 33 at 12 dpo, 65 at 14 dpo, 103? at 21 dpo and 154 at 28 dpo. So, low and very slow HCG the whole time which is a very bad sign. Previously my progesterone was in the 20's. The severe fall means my body is getting ready to move on. And, sure enough I was spotting this morning. So good news there. I just want to miscarry naturally, so I can move on. om.gif

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Hey ladies, I haven't been on a lot in the last few days.  I have just been trying to distract myself with Christmas shopping, projects, and such.  Apparently it's working because we are now on cd 11 (I usually o between cd 11 and 14) and we haven't DTD yet.  We actually planned to last night but Dh got called into work.  Oh well we can make up for it tonight.  On another note I purchased another bookshelf off craigslist yesterday that I plan to sand down and paint for the play room so there's one more project for my list.


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V-E-R-Y interesting about the progesterone and strong O, Xerxella! I wonder...no obvious O signs until yesterday, when EWCM was dripping out on the toilet (sorry, TMI)...So I guess that means I'm o'ing now, huh? I'm so terrible at fertility signs...I really need to get my hands on a copy of TCOYF redface.gif. Again, there seems to be yet another stomach bug making the rounds here, so I probably just have a touch of that ;)


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JustJenny, sounds like your HSG went well. Good luck in in the next couple of cycles!

 

Welcome katiecornflakes, Cindy-lu, and serena76!

 

Oasis, maybe there is something else going on with your body that is messing with your temps. One low temp could just be a fluke.

 

revolting, no need to apologize for feeling down. It's important to let yourself feel whatever you need to.

 

Lidamama84, you can always take up temping to find your fertility signs if you like. It drove me crazy eventually, but I like understanding my body better. I was never a good judge of CM. On the subject of EWCM, to get that, all I have to do is drink a lot of green tea.

 

John16n33, that's great that you are keeping yourself so distracted!

 

prescottchels, maybe it is winter time dry skin?  But oasis is right, I bet you can find women saying either way.

 

I hope everyone is enjoying the holiday season!


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Well I'm about 7 dpo and no symptoms apart from abit tired, so looking like I missed out this time. I don't really understand all the temp charting stuff, so think I will investigate it all a bit more and try harder next month lol
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Xerxella Thinking of you and very much hoping that things progress quickly for you. I am genuinely in awe of your strength and your positive attitude. I'm hopeful you are able to find a caring, supportive health care provider to assist you on this journey to discover why this keeps happening. Lots of hug2.gifto you.

 

Dakipode Amazing boots! I always feel so confident and put together when I wear boots like that.

 

John16n33 Looks like we are nearly cycle buddies! And I love Sherlock also, btw.

 

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AFM I've been mostly MIA the past few weeks as I have been doing a lot of soul searching and having some serious discussions with DH. DH is still ambivalent, though this is an improvement over last month's completely against TTC. Bottom line, I've not been feeling so zen and I've therefore avoided posting. I am persistent though. I am certainly still feeling that sense that Lidamama described of our family not being quite complete yet, someone is missing. So, despite two consecutive months of terrible meltdowns, I am giving it another go. I hope to remain calm and peaceful, having the holidays as a distraction is definitely a good thing.  I am nearly in this month's TWW, been having lots of EWCM and got my +OPK this morning!! DTD right then - a bathroom lock and PBS Kids is a handy combo winky.gif Thank you to whoever suggested that the female orgasm increased the likelihood of conception. While I am not typically neglected in that way, it can't hurt, right? I am planning to reduce my coffee intake, or perhaps eliminate it, over the next week; I drink 1-2 cups per day. I am drinking my grapefruit juice and green tea regularly. Continuing to take my Prenatals, Vit D and B6 and supplementing with a Vegetarian Omega Fatty Acid Smoothie. I ordered a bunch of Wondfos, 50 OPKs and 20 Pregnancy Tests. I am hoping these changes, being kind to myself and some magical thinking will result in a January BFP!!

 

Just curious, what supplements do you take? What brands:? And why (for both). What plans do you have for the holidays, besides THOSE plans (wink, wink)? Also, what do all of you do? I know we've discussed some about jobs before but I feel like I know lots about many of you but not exactly what most of you do.

 

I am a Health Teacher at a local private school. I teach Middle and High School students. I spend much of my class time focused on birth control and decision making around sexual activity, your not so typical, I hope, Sex Ed. It is in many ways ironic right now, particularly the looks of horror on many of my students faces as they consider the idea of pregnancy and childbirth. I previously taught Maternal Child Public Health at a local Medical School and for the local Health Department. I LOVE my job and I am thrilled that DD can attend the same school, which we would otherwise not ever be able to afford. She previously attended a Montessori School where tuition was far more manageable. It is so much more convenient to be in the same location with the same schedule and she's thrilled to have me there. Last year when her classmates had a lot of questions about a pregnant teacher she told them, "My mom will explain all that to you in Middle School." This year a classmate made a comment to the effect of, "when I was in my mom's stomach..." to which my DD replied, "Well, you were never in your mom's stomach!" Her Spanish teacher relayed the story and told me he stopped her before she went on to explain about a woman's uterus, he quickly changed the subject as he was not prepared to have that conversation. shrug.gif I have always answered her questions truthfully and as fully as she's desired.

 

I'll stop my rambling now. Happy Friday mamas!!


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Sparkle-  That's adorable about your Dd, we tend to answer our Dd as truthfully as we can without going into ALL the details.

 

Serena- 7dpo is too early to count yourself out!  There are tons of people who do not have any symptoms at that point.  I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!

 

I am currently taking Rainbow Light Prenatal Ones and that's about it.  I am going to try to start eating like I am pregnant and kind of do a loose Brewer's diet (with a lot less calories).  I just want to try to get used to eating 4-5 small meals a day and getting all those food groups in.  I think I will plan for 3 actual meals, a protein shake, and a juiced smoothie each day.  I am also trying to exercise each day and I want to continue that into pregnancy.  If we don't get pregnant this cycle I will probably start taking extra folic acid.

 

For the holidays all we are doing is hanging out with some friends of ours here on the island (they have two boys around Dd's age).  Monday we are all decorating cookies and then going to the Christmas eve service at church, then Tuesday we are having Christmas dinner at their house (we had Thanksgiving at ours).

 

And I am a SAHM/student.  I am supposed to be student teaching in the spring (but it still hasn't been scheduled and I'm getting nervous).  I am going to school to get my bachelors in elementary education with an emphasis in early childhood education.

 

AFM- I am currently on cd12, I *should* o tomorrow or Sunday if my cycles stay the way they have been.  I started having EWCM yesterday and we DTD last night (and plan to through Monday or Tuesday depending on when my temp shift is). I plan to test on New Year's even though I will only be 8-9dpo.  I just think it would be fun to find out on New Year's lol.


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Sparklemaman: Good for you working things out (as much as you can work out anything of this sort) with DH. Welcome back to the thread ;)  And good for you, DTDing in the bathroom!!! I'm way too conventional to do things like that :) And since my drive is way lower than DH's, it's usually only him who finishes Sheepish.gif. But I do feel like the female orgasm would def help with pregnancy. Also, very cool job!!! And especially that your DD can go to that school too!

 

Oasis: I did try temping a while back, but it doesn't really work for me because of co-sleeping and frequent night-wakings, as well as the children stealing my thermometer when I try to temp. For me, it was way more trouble than it was worth ;) Good to know about EWCM, I really thought it was only with O. Although I did notice an improvement with my CM after starting to take EPO.

 

Sparkle was asking about supplements: I have been very lax the past few weeks, but I usually take a prenatal (expired, but prob still good...I hate to throw it out...), EPO 1000mg (I think), Vit D (3000 IU in winter, 1000 in summer), B-Complex, Fish Oil capsules (although I am stopping those after this batch is done. I was taking them cause I don't eat much fish, but apparently they are not very useful in pregnancy...), and probiotics (in winter).

 

To answer the question of the week: I work for the government. I proofread and edit documents. Not very interesting, but it's a secure job with good pay and benefits. And I feel like it's not so mentally consuming that I can't have my own interests and hobbies outside of work :)


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I am having some pretty severe cramping in my left side, either it's o (which would fit into my usual O patterns) or I am having a cyst rupture.  Ouch!  We plan to dtd every night up until o is confirmed.


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I pressed enter before I was done, darn it.  But I am hoping that o is today that way I am not trying to squeeze in alone time with Dh on Christmas and Christmas Eve.  Oh the inconveniences of TTC, lol.


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John,- I kno 7 dpo is early to count me out, but when I was pregnant in oct I had extremely sore bbs and was abit crazy. Nothing like that this time greensad.gif

As for supplements I only take colic acid, but I keep forgetting lol

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I'll b working over Xmas so it will keep me distracted hopefully lol
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Damn, that was supposed to b folic acid lol
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serena- I still wouldn't count yourself out. Just like every baby is different, every pregnancy is too so there is still a chance!

 

AFM- No temp shift this morning which I admit had me a little  bummed.  With those cramps last night I was sure I O'd, oh well maybe tomorrow.  Dd has also started getting into our bed every night again which is making temping a little hard.


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Oasis-thanks for the TWW link. I haven't seen that before! Yippee! Another place to explore and get sucked into winky.gif

 

Sparkle-I'm a bit of an unjobber. Lots of different things to pay the bills. I love variety so it works great for me, plus I love setting my own schedule! Right now I have 2 clients that I'm sort of a case manager for-sometimes we run errands/go to the doc/grocery, sometimes we work on organizing paper, sometimes computer work, sometimes nutrition coaching... Another client I'm scanning historic photos and negatives for-w/his equipment in my home and there's no timeline so I do it whenever the mood strikes or when I need some quick $$ I just sit and scan for hours and then call him up and go pick up a check. It rocks!! Also have done catering at my alma mater for the past 5 years and am the gluten free baker for them and their on campus cafe. Also edited a self-published book for one of my clients and sometimes sell some knitted hats! 

 

AFM-Looks like we're passing on the house we looked at the other day, just too big of a project for DP to take on right now, plus a lot of the other houses in the neighborhood were kind of depressed too. DP and his parents seem to be pretty tapped in to the local real estate market and are pretty confident another place will pop up in a better neighborhood in the spring. So we'll wait and see...

I'm thinking about going to the store to get a hpt today. eyesroll.gif  biggrinbounce.gif  nut.gif  I'm not sure if starting to test will make me more crazy or less... I think if I got a BFP before AF is due I'd still be worried it wouldn't stick. Is that silly? Anyone ever experience that? (separate from miscarrying sometime after AF was due...)


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Still here, mamas. I wanted to pop in and share this with other mamas: http://www.lovenaturalbirth.com/conscious-conception.html

 

I really love the idea of a language shift of "trying to conceive" to "opening, allowing, and receiving." I think a lot of the inner work I have in this journey focuses on letting go of the "need" to have a rainbow baby. If I hadn't miscarried my first pregnancy this year, I would have a "due date" on the winter solstice. Instead, I miscarried twice more. I enter a very emotional time, surrounded by a season so focused on birth when my own body lost so many babies this year. I had hoped that I'd have moved past the grief, and while I continue to make progress, I still can't imagine what it would look like to be "over it" without a healthy pregnancy.  My own children's birthdays start to seem near, and I try not to panic about the widening age gap.
 

Lida and Dakipode - I try not to think about age, too. Sometimes, I feel so bitter, to have had my first miscarriage at only 17, to have miscarriage after miscarriage at 25. My birthday comes in a few days, and as many wonderful mamas I know who conceived naturally in their forties, adding another year to my age just discourages me.

 

I try so hard to stay positive. I have some affirmations that I have placed on my water bottle to remind me of this.Does anyone else, especially those who have gone through multiple losses, have affirmations they'd like to share? I had so much trust in my body's ability to nurture a pregnancy in the past: I birthed both of my children out of hospitals. I really want to regain that.

 

Sorry for being such a downer.

revolting: I don't think you have anything to apologize for. I hear what you're saying about the "need" to have a baby, regardless of the reason. I mentioned in the Bajingo thread that I think we put so much stress on ourselves when we create a reason/deadline/obligation to have a baby and yet I can't help but think that way: oh, if I got pregnant now it would mean..., right?

By the way, happy (belated?) birthday!

 

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AFM I've been mostly MIA the past few weeks as I have been doing a lot of soul searching and having some serious discussions with DH. DH is still ambivalent, though this is an improvement over last month's completely against TTC. Bottom line, I've not been feeling so zen and I've therefore avoided posting. I am persistent though. I am certainly still feeling that sense that Lidamama described of our family not being quite complete yet, someone is missing. So, despite two consecutive months of terrible meltdowns, I am giving it another go. I hope to remain calm and peaceful, having the holidays as a distraction is definitely a good thing.  I am nearly in this month's TWW, been having lots of EWCM and got my +OPK this morning!! DTD right then - a bathroom lock and PBS Kids is a handy combo winky.gif Thank you to whoever suggested that the female orgasm increased the likelihood of conception. While I am not typically neglected in that way, it can't hurt, right? I am planning to reduce my coffee intake, or perhaps eliminate it, over the next week; I drink 1-2 cups per day. I am drinking my grapefruit juice and green tea regularly. Continuing to take my Prenatals, Vit D and B6 and supplementing with a Vegetarian Omega Fatty Acid Smoothie. I ordered a bunch of Wondfos, 50 OPKs and 20 Pregnancy Tests. I am hoping these changes, being kind to myself and some magical thinking will result in a January BFP!!

 

Just curious, what supplements do you take? What brands:? And why (for both). What plans do you have for the holidays, besides THOSE plans (wink, wink)? Also, what do all of you do? I know we've discussed some about jobs before but I feel like I know lots about many of you but not exactly what most of you do.

sparklemaman: glad to hear you're able to have some talks with DH, hopefully that means you are able to connect a bit more. I laughed when I read your account of the bathroom quickie!

 

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AFM-Looks like we're passing on the house we looked at the other day, just too big of a project for DP to take on right now, plus a lot of the other houses in the neighborhood were kind of depressed too. DP and his parents seem to be pretty tapped in to the local real estate market and are pretty confident another place will pop up in a better neighborhood in the spring. So we'll wait and see...

I'm thinking about going to the store to get a hpt today. eyesroll.gif  biggrinbounce.gif  nut.gif  I'm not sure if starting to test will make me more crazy or less... I think if I got a BFP before AF is due I'd still be worried it wouldn't stick. Is that silly? Anyone ever experience that? (separate from miscarrying sometime after AF was due...)

prescott: the house sounded promising but if it's a trend in the neighborhood you're probably right to hold off.

I can't help you with the HPT question. I've never gotten an early positive. It's not silly to have the fears you've got. I think we all have our superstitions and they are part of how we deal with all the stress of TTC.

 

Everyone else: hello and happy holidays!

 

AFM: getting ready to leave town. The visit with the in-laws will carry me partway through the 2ww though I'm not expecting much this cycle since we weren't really trying. Been keeping busy with other stuff: household finances, business bookkeeping, writing... Definitely been feeling the need to hang back a bit and not let myself get too excited or worked up about TTC this cycle.

Supplements: once daily vitamin, B-complex, 100mg niacin 3xdaily, 500mg calcium 3xdaily, 400(unit?) vit E, royal jelly when I feel like it, vit C 0-2000mg depending on the day. I sort of got into supplementing after reading Doctor Yourself, the convincing argument was that the side effects from taking supplements are likely to be much less dangerous than the ones you can get from taking prescription medication...

Job: biomechanics specialist. Technically a personal fitness trainer but not working with clients who want to lose weight etc, more on the corrective exercise end, towards the physical therapy realm. The tagline for my business is: Improve the way you move. A client of mine once joked that I should add the words "or else!"


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dakipode- Have fun visiting your inlaws!

 

AFM- I finally got a temp shift this morning so I am in my TWW.  Thank goodness I have a list of projects to keep me busy, plus Christmas, and I have my Aunt, Uncle, and a few cousins to hang out with on Thursday for a whole 6.5 hours lol.  They vacationed on the Big Island for Christmas and have a 6.5 hour layover in Honolulu on Thursday so I am going to go pick them all up and hang out for awhile.  I am so excited, I miss my family so much!


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Sorry I haven't been on much. It's, of course, a busy time. But I'm thinking of you all and hoping to hear some BFPs soon.

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Hoping you all had wonderful holiday celebrations!! Lots of distractions and keeping busy can definitely be a good thing.

 

Thinking of you Xerxella! Sending you lots of healing vibes.

 

And thanks to everyone who shared their vitamin/supplement plan. I am just curious what you all do and what wisdom you have to share. I take New Chapter Organics Perfect Prenatals (it's a whole foods based supplement with probiotics to boot), a vegetarian Vitamin B Complex (with 20 mg B6), 5,000 IU Vitamin D (living in Central NY with our lack of sunshine results in chronic low D levels - my initial results were 9 and came up to low 50's with supplementation) and Barlean's Vegan Total Omega Swirl (with flax, borage and plant based DHA). I am always looking for more information, despite my background in health care and public health, most of my knowledge around holistic health is self taught/sought.

 

AFM 2whistle.gif Hanging out in my TWW, nearly half way through. We are expecting a snow storm this afternoon with 2 feet or more of snow by tomorrow morning. cold.gif I am looking forward to lots of snow play with DD tomorrow. Happily distracted and spending time with my family. I hope you all are getting lots of time to do the same.


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Hope everyone had a fantastic Christmas!! Mine rocked!! It usually does... winky.gif and it continues! Today my good friend and I head down to Phoenix (2 hrs south) to visit my mom and grandpa for brunch and (more) presents. I really wanted to test today, but I'll do it tomorrow instead. If I got a BFP today I'd be too excited to keep my mouth shut around my mom, who's not in the know about what DP and I are up to. She worries & judges too much and makes me crazy so she doesn't get to find out til baby is well on its way!

DP gave me a 39" LCD flat screen tv yesterday! When he bought it he said, "I just got you the perfect gestation gift!" lol He had me totally stumped. I would have never guessed or expected that in a million years! When I was getting ready to give him my present he said, it's hard to want to unwrap a present when I have everything I want right here....(me sitting on his lap, possibly pregnant), but he really liked what I got him. I'm such a blessed girl love.gif

 

What was your favorite present or new memory created?


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