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Just a quick note to say it's pretty clear I'm not in limbo anymore.  Had very strong cramps this afternoon and bleeding started this evening, so I guess I can be switched to waiting to O.  While I am very bummed, I can't say I'm surprised.  It was off from the beginning.  Hopefully things will continue normally and naturally.  I've gone through a missed miscarriage discovered at 14 weeks (in 2001) and an early loss at 5 weeks (in 2006), and close after each of those were when my DD and DS were conceived.   So... I'm definitely disappointed but not discouraged.  I really do believe everything will work out ok in the end.  Hugs y'all and good night. 


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Big hugs jenjy xxxx
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Just a quick note to say it's pretty clear I'm not in limbo anymore.  

 

So... I'm definitely disappointed but not discouraged.  I really do believe everything will work out ok in the end.  Hugs y'all and good night. 

I'm sorry Jenjy *huge hugs*

 

I'm glad that you finally know what's going on. I wish it was a different outcome for you however :hug


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delightedbutterfly - yes, I have insurance (expensive and crappy, but that's pretty standard I would guess, lol.)  I think what I will do though is keep monitoring myself for a couple more days and then go in for blood tests/whatever else if I continue to stay in limbo.  What is the latest with your chart?  Any new clues to what is going on??

I have the hardest time remembering about the whole insurance thing. I always say "just go to the doctor" until I remember that we do things differently here :( I'm hoping for the best for you next month!

AFM: my temp went down this morning. Under coverline. (but Sat night was not a normal/good night for me in various ways) So we'll see what it does in the morning. I'm still working on expecting AF and not getting any hopes up with this long weird cycle. Went to a BBQ with DH's company tonight and his boss and wife just had a baby and there were lots of other wee ones running around and both DH and I felt that pull and wanting :(

Hoping I can get some time to update the first thread tomorrow :)


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Okay need advice on experts on ovulating lol... I haven't been charting nor temping nothing lol. Okay the last couple days my boobs have started to get very sore. Also today I have noticed ewcm and I'm cramping just a little. I'm on cd 16 if I am going off a 28 day cycle since the last two were 45 -47 days. But they were long two cycles and had a mc in may then I'm having two long cycles do u think maybe I'm ovulating or about to? Is boob tenderness a sign if ovulation sometimes?? Never had it before but very sore greensad.gif need advice:)
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I honestly don't know scjp, I'm guessing it could be a sign of ovulation... Mine hurt usually around AF and when I take my progesterone, I've never noticed them hurting at ovulation but I could just not be thinkin about it :)


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Well they started hurting like they did when I got pregnant with my son and when I had my mc in may. And they never hurt except during af but not this bad I just Thot it was odd lol I'm only cycle day 16
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I have the hardest time remembering about the whole insurance thing. I always say "just go to the doctor" until I remember that we do things differently here :( I'm hoping for the best for you next month!
 

Oohh!  You're Canadian!  (Lucky!)  

 

scjp - Sure, I'd say it could be an O sign, or a sign that you did ovulate...  Once or twice I've had pain start as early as a day after O and last through my LP.   


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FF took away my crosshairs again... On CD 39, no sign of ovulation and a negative test today. Would really like AF to show up now.

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jenjy sorry to read that :Hug

 

Hanging out on CD 9 today, waiting...


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Okay so 14DPO and a BFN and no sign of AF yet.. Blaaaghh
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Jenjy.... Big hugs and I love your positivity! smile.gif It's hard to do sometimes when those BFN are slapping ya in the face every time we test. Hope October is your BFP month or end of Sept whichever.. Idk?? wink1.giforngbiggrin.gif
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:Hug Jenjy - Hoping that your streak continues and that you can get a BFP this next cycle!

 

Delighted - Hope this cycle figures itself out and you can move on to the next one soon!

 

Scjp - Not sure about sore boobs for ovulation symptom. I usually have ovulation pain around my ovaries, but temping really helped me to pinpoint.

 

AFM - I was pretty hopeful last cycle until 4 straight days of dropping temps. At my longest LP ever of 17 days... finally got AF again. Got my day 3 tests (blood and ultrasound), so now I'm waiting to O at CD5 and waiting for our follow-up appointment at the RE on September 10. Then hopefully we'll have a plan. I've never hoped that something was wrong with me so hard - so we can fix something and I can get KU already!


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I'm new here but I was just wondering what and how early everyone's pregnancy symptoms were. We've been ttc for 6 month now I started af 5 days early so I'm about 8dpo had alot of dizziness arguments between DH and I have made me cry lol been starving and had a slight cold runny nose sore throat and a little congestion well I couldn't wait I took a test today and it was a very faint positive is that possible or am I going crazy...?
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Could be positive I would take a test with first mornin urine and post a pic so we can see smile.gif lol
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FF took away my crosshairs again... On CD 39, no sign of ovulation and a negative test today. Would really like AF to show up now.

delightedbutterfly:(.  Crud, what is this cycle of yours about?!  

 

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Okay so 14DPO and a BFN and no sign of AF yet.. Blaaaghh

Oh, Rose!  Hang in there!

 

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Then hopefully we'll have a plan. I've never hoped that something was wrong with me so hard - so we can fix something and I can get KU already!

marcyse -- hoping so hard that they'll have a great plan for you!!

 

Thank you all again SO MUCH for the well wishes!  I really appreciate it. So very much hoping September is the month for all of us in here!!

 

tiffl0333, that looks positive to me...


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I figured maybe I was just wanting it too much.. But I didn't think it'd show up so early.. Either way I'm trying not to get overly excited yet but it's hard
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Looks very positive to me I would wait til u are 12dpo and it should be wayyyy darker smile.gif good luck
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Yeah I'm going to try to wait a few more days to test again .. I've been overly excited about it don't really want to tell DH yet .. Ill tell him once I test again:) try to lol..
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I would wait smile.gif and do something special to tell him smile.gif I know when I get my bfp I wanna do something cute to tell my hubby smile.gif
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I'm def going to try and do something special he doubted that he could even have children but we decided to try for a year if it didn't happen then he'd see a doctor I really hope u get ur bfp soon .. And I thank god for blessing me in such a way smile.gif!
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I'm sending positive vibes your way and I hope I do too we have been trying for 6 months and we have a 3 in dec so we hoping by time he is 4 we will have another one smile.gif we have been really trying this month so fx for bfp for all of us smile.gif def let us know and show pics of test smile.gif lol
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That's how long we tried 6 months hopefully it's ur lucky month too smile.gif!!
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Argh Argh Argh....

 

Sorry this is going to be AAM at the moment. Downing a half glass o wine to mellow me out cuz i get so tense over this fertility stuff at times.

 

So I'm i guess 8 dpo now? What do you think? Does not my chart look triphasic? Or is it Quadraphasic? lol

 

Have tried Osom tests those ultra sensitive test down to 10miu kind and getting evaps after the time limit? I think... super light tho. My chart is so confusing. 

 

http://tcoyf.com/members/Tara2/charts/15.aspx

 

ETA sorry those alarm clocks shouldn't be there in the chart. The software is messing with me lately. Temp time is between 6-7am each day.  Also, it has changed my O date twice already. Was sick yesterday with cold and low grade fever hence the high temp. Todays temp is normal again..

 

Couple more things... so i went back and reread the last few pages to try to catch up. Had to add

 

jenjy- sorry for all your losses. I had a missed m/c at 6-7 weeks and. It sucks. I'm sorry.

 

Oh and anyone know how much is too much wine that will disturb my BBT tomorrow? Thinking to have another half glass just cuz i'm feeling so ~meh~. thanks!


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tif10333 that looks positive to me! smile.gif

jenjy I am better now that I have accepted that September was not going to be my BFP month. Shooting for the beginning of October now. orngbiggrin.giforngbiggrin.gif
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jenjy - I've been following this thread and your ups and downs. I just wanted to give you some Hugs and tell you your positivity is inspiring. Good luck on this next cycle!

 

Please switch me to waiting to O. Today is cycle day two, I am disappointed but I'm glad my weird 52 day (or 30 and 22 day) cycle is over! Now I just need to remember to temp.


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So I'm i guess 8 dpo now? What do you think? Does not my chart look triphasic? Or is it Quadraphasic? lol

 

Have tried Osom tests those ultra sensitive test down to 10miu kind and getting evaps after the time limit? I think... super light tho. My chart is so confusing. 

 

http://tcoyf.com/members/Tara2/charts/15.aspx

Wow, I use FF and I have to say the tcoyf charts make my head spin a bit, lol!  As far as I can tell though, I would agree that yesterday you were 8DPO.   So you are getting faint positives after the time limit?  Yeah, I would be suspicious of that as well.  Sadly, my understanding has been that anything after the time limit should be ignored.  I want your maybe-evaps to be positive tests!  But anyway, you are 9DPO now and getting to the time when testing could definitely lead to something!  That is exciting.  How long is your usual LP?

 

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jenjy I am better now that I have accepted that September was not going to be my BFP month. Shooting for the beginning of October now. orngbiggrin.gif 

Good luck, RoseMom!  I really hope October is it for you!  (My cycle is short enough that I'll know one way or the other by the end of September...)

 

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jenjy - I've been following this thread and your ups and downs. I just wanted to give you some Hugs and tell you your positivity is inspiring. Good luck on this next cycle!

 

Please switch me to waiting to O. Today is cycle day two, I am disappointed but I'm glad my weird 52 day (or 30 and 22 day) cycle is over! Now I just need to remember to temp.

Thank you, southbaymama!  It helps to have support here.  I'm sorry you are also starting over with a new cycle.  No weird cycles allowed this month!  :p


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Hang in there, Tara! We all feel that way sometimes!

 

AFM, I started acupuncture today. Not sure how I feel about it. I remember reading in this thread that someone was doing acupuncture and that it helped their LP. I don't seem to be having any problem with LP or O, but I figured I'd have him do some fertility points, since I was already going to start for digestion and anxiety. Hoping that I feel zen soon enough! I go back next week. Anybody have any words of wisdom on acupuncture?


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