We have a 6 and 8 year old but started dreaming baby again after I got unexpectantly pregnant this summer. I am in the middle of a missed miscarriage and so sad about it. However, it does have me thinking about actually *trying* again. I thought we were done but now not so sure. Does anyone know what the odds are of us having a healthy babe at our advanced age :) (me 43 and hubby 46). Thanks!
Sierra, wife to DH , Mama to DD (2012) and DS(2014). In love with my family and hoping for inner .
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I couldn't read your post without responding. Two years ago, I was where you are now.
At that time, dd was 4 1/2 years old. Dh and I had made the tough decision that she would be our only. When I found myself unexpectedly pregnant, I went through a gamut of feelings, but in the end I was overjoyed for my "second chance". Then, I miscarried at 9 weeks. I was devastated. I was so afraid that I was too old to have another child.
I gave myself time to grieve, went on a "fertility cleanse," and made dh (who was 50 at the time) go on a "fertility cleanse" as well. (I don't know if the fertility cleanse helped or not, but it made me feel empowered for the months I was grieving before we TTC). Five months after the miscarriage, I was pregnant! I was 44 when I gave birth to my amazing, wonderful, pure bundle of joy - dd2. I had a picture perfect pregnancy and had an easy birth.
We are getting ready to celebrate dd2 1st at the end of this month.
BTW - I have a good friend, who is 44 and pregnant. The pregnancy was a surprise for them too. She is in her 2nd trimester and everything is going beautifully!
There is hope. Sending your way.
I did a lot of reading and came across this website:
The article focuses on getting your body ready for conception by cleansingexcess hormones (psuedo-estrogens for example). Basically, it is a liver cleanse by itself or with a uterine cleanse I felt it helped my body recover from the miscarriage as well. I didn't buy their cleanse products, but took their advice. Along with the herbs they recommended, I also ate greens, sprouts, and wheatgrass. I'll write more later - by 11 month old wants my full attention.
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