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Congrats magrat!!!! That's awesome.
Afm: I'm on cycle day 76 still negative test. I'm so lost I have never had a cycle this long before greensad.gif
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Congrats magrat!!!! That's awesome.
Afm: I'm on cycle day 76 still negative test. I'm so lost I have never had a cycle this long before greensad.gif

Scjp, I know some essential oils that can help bring a delayed period. If you want to ask me about it, PM me.

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@scjp1109, by any chance are you active in the gym or participate in any type of sport? That completely messes up AF. I use to play soccer and was a coach, and it's one of the many common things. A messed up cycle. Except the girls usually got their cycles closer to every two weeks.

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@scjp1109 any odd medical history in your family? Also, you need to pretty much demand they do an immediate ultrasound. Large cysts on the uterus can cause lack if cycles, or even awful cycles. It happened to my sister in law before she conceived her triplets.

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AF arrived right on time today. At least she's consistent. Guess it's time to use my monitor and see what it says about my O date. I'm predicting day 15 or 16....

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Congrats Crystal!!! So exciting!!! :)

 

17DPO (?) and experiencing brown discharge. Either AF or ???? Will test tomorrow morning if no change... AF usually comes brighter and red. We'll see though; don't want to get my hopes up. I'm not very good at predicting O so I don't even know if I got that right. Still crampy, tired, and nauseous after eating.

 

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rosie2727, I'm sorry!!  That is so disappointing.  

 

magrat, congratulation!


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4 DPO roughly. Super crampy and gassy hopefully all good signs.

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Thanks ladies! I'm hoping some of the positive energy gets passed along to you all. Baby dust and best wishes!

So sorry Rosie. Good luck Alivewithyou and kita4

 

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I got a faint positive this morning.  I definitely got my grandmas' fertility genes (they had 8 and 9 kids) - this is our first month trying for our 3rd and we DTD once!  Man, it's a good thing I've always been super careful with BC.  
 

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AF arrived right on time today. At least she's consistent. Guess it's time to use my monitor and see what it says about my O date. I'm predicting day 15 or 16....

Bummer about AF, but thankfully it is on time and you don't have to be tortured any longer. I predict this cycle will be the one for you. wink1.gif

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@scjp1109 any odd medical history in your family? Also, you need to pretty much demand they do an immediate ultrasound. Large cysts on the uterus can cause lack if cycles, or even awful cycles. It happened to my sister in law before she conceived her triplets.
There is no history of that happening in my family. My mom said it could be the iud I had and I had it taken out oct 2012 and ever since then my periods have been messed
Up but this is the worst it's ever been going on 77 days lol
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oh rosie2727 im so sorry that sucks.

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Sorry Rosie I know that's hard. Atleast you have a fresh new shot at it. smile.gif

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@rosie2727 I'm sorry. It will happen soon!

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Hi ladies! After being MIA since October, AF has arrived! I'm so happy!!!!!!!

 

I start my first cycle of clomid on Thursday and we'll see how it goes. Send lots and lots of positive baby dust this way. I'm ready to be knocked up!


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Congrats mo, I bet that is a huge relief smile.gif

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My guess is 6dpo. Diet is starting to become a struggle because I am absolutely starving lol. I'm trying to eat healthy things but yeah can't get enough food. Been nauseous when hungry and was pretty dizzy getting out of the shower this morning. Smells were very strong this morning as well and I've had pretty mild cramping that feels like AF for the last few days. Here's to hoping I'm not crazy and just imagining things. My husband is still very confident he even has a guess on baby's birth weight and hair color lol.

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So if my body wants AF to arrive exactly 28 days after my miscarriage, it will be January 30th. My obgyn said I could either go back to immediately normal or skip a cycle. I'm not a fan of guessing games, and don't want to have false hope either yanno? What's everyone else's experience been?

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So if my body wants AF to arrive exactly 28 days after my miscarriage, it will be January 30th. My obgyn said I could either go back to immediately normal or skip a cycle. I'm not a fan of guessing games, and don't want to have false hope either yanno? What's everyone else's experience been?
My mc was 7 years ago now but I think my cycles went back to normal however I went on bc right after so I guess that's not a good example :/

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So if my body wants AF to arrive exactly 28 days after my miscarriage, it will be January 30th. My obgyn said I could either go back to immediately normal or skip a cycle. I'm not a fan of guessing games, and don't want to have false hope either yanno? What's everyone else's experience been?
I had my miscarriage at 8 weeks, when my normal AF would have been had I never been pg. I bled (w/lochia) for 10 days and my next cycle began after 28 days, as usual. We did try to get pregnant that first cycle - didn't happen. After that, I don't think we really tried, but we did hope and let things happen. It was 6 months before my BFP with DD3. Let me tell you too - that baby is RESILIENT. I am also a rainbow baby. My mother lost her first to a heart defect at 3 days old. I like to think that I'm pretty resilient too. wink1.gif

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Badwolf, I've missed 3 periods in my life (not late, just exactly two 28 day cycles), even with pcos, and all 3 were only directly after 3 of my miscarriages. But then the other 6, I had regular cycles right away... That's my experience.

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Thanks ladies. My DH is hoping that because the obgyn said women have their highest fertility after mc, we will get it on the first shot. So he's hoping I don't get my AF on the 30th and that I'm not having irregular changes. Id love for it to be that easy, but I'm not getting high hopes like him. It's been emotionally straining enough trying to process the mc, my brothers death, and all the other stresses over the past few weeks. Blah. Thanks for dealing with my rants. It's appreciated so much. <3

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Hello wise ladies! Just an update (and a question or two!) I started charting a week ago, and my fertilty friend chart looks ever so wonky already, so I've omitted one temp (CD4) and its made a big difference in making it look like more regular charts. Is this cheating? Do you keep in anomolous data? I'm happier with it now than before, but don't want to fool myself into thinking I'm 'normal' if there's cause for concerns. I'm considering vaginal rather than oral temps next month to see if its more consistent. Thanks in advance- I wouldn't know where to ask without you all!

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Hello wise ladies! Just an update (and a question or two!) I started charting a week ago, and my fertilty friend chart looks ever so wonky already, so I've omitted one temp (CD4) and its made a big difference in making it look like more regular charts. Is this cheating? Do you keep in anomolous data? I'm happier with it now than before, but don't want to fool myself into thinking I'm 'normal' if there's cause for concerns. I'm considering vaginal rather than oral temps next month to see if its more consistent. Thanks in advance- I wouldn't know where to ask without you all!
I just started charting last month. So idk....I did chart 12 ish years ago but don't recall what I did. I do remember tho that once you get into the routine of doing it, it tends to normalize some. I think the nervousness and excitement of it affects your temp at first. But once the redundancy sets in, you should see more normal temps. I do think that if you have like 1 weird temp per week, you could safely replace it with an average temp to smooth out the line. When I started last month, it was all over the place (but I was sick too). But so far, this month, it has been textbook normal. Only on CD4 tho.

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Boo, what's up AF?  Alas...  We'll try again next round...  Back to Waiting to O.

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So looking all the way back to October my first +OPK was on CD20,November it was CD 19, Dec CD 18 and now today Jan CD 17 it is positive.  I still observing CM as my main way to detect ovulation but the OPK are so tempting to follow too.  CM seems hard to detect when BDing on the daily. Nothing has been obvious.  Anyway, it would appear that my cycle days between AF to O is progressively getting shorter.  Good thing or bad thing? My temps are so all over the place it is hard to tell anything but that.

 

 

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I would think that's a good thing because then you can have a longer luteal phase. smile.gif

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8 DPO and we couldn't be any more excited to test next Wednesday . Mild cramping and nausea along with being really exhausted and just wanting to lay in bed when I get home ha ha heat also makes me dizzy right now. Other then that I feel great and have a good feeling about this cycle. I just want next week to hurry up so I can find out if my husband and I are just crazy lol. smile.gif

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