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#1 of 2 Old 01-10-2014, 09:52 AM - Thread Starter
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Hey Ladies! I'm new here and hoping to make some friends and do a little cheering up seeing some BFPs. : )

I am so confused. I have Lady Comp and it gives me different O dates than Fertility Friend but lately I've been using FF because it's more easy to read and determine. Well I was disappointed last month I got a BFN, and this month I had some symptoms that I've never  had before so I thought maybe it was possible for a BFP. I never breakout around AF and this month at 11 & 12 dpo I had a major breakout... which hasn't happened since I was a teenager : /!!! I wasn't sure if it was my body finally recovering from taking the BC pill all those years, or a possible BFP... I was hoping for BFP.

My temps stayed over the coverline which is unusual... Woke up with a bad headache on 11dpo. Which never  happens either... (I wasn't drinking). 

I usually have 25 cycle days. I'm on day 27 now. 

I took two pregnancy tests (different brands one from Dollar Tree) on 12 dpo and both were BFN to my disappointment.


Well I woke up earlier than usual at 6:45 and had a temp of 96.92 which caused a huge dip. 

Using the BBT adjuster it changed it to 97.32F...

I went back to sleep for two hours and then took temp and it was 97.92. So I don't know which temp to use......

Still no signs of AF...  yet. : (


Can anyone help... I am so confused when to take another PT or just wait it out until 14dpo so I'm not sadder... and my mind is playing tricks on me with the temps this morning. I don't know which BBT to go by!

Please help!

It would be much appreciated.

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Hello shock00xx! Welcome to Mothering! I'm sorry you are frustrated and confused. TTC is tricky maddening business. Since you woke up earlier than usual, I wouldn't count that temp. Temping works best if you take your temp at the same time every day and have been asleep for a few hours beforehand. These are not easy things to accomplish. I wouldn't worry about one temp that is off. The overall trend is what matters. Even at 14DPO, you can get a negative when you are actually pregnant. The longer you wait, the more accurate the test will be. It sounds like you have some good signs. Good luck!

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