lmevans, it definitely looks like there is a line there to me! Congratulations!
Welcome, TPerkins and WriterMama12 and Happy Mama2013!
TPerkinsI take it you're in the 2ww then? I have not experienced bleeding like that, sorry I'm not more help.
motherofthewolf, sorry you didn't get a BFP this time. I know how frustrating it can be. Especially with long cycles. Have your cycles always been that long or is it just since you got your cycle back after last baby?
And just as a general question, for everyone that got their cycle back, how long did it take to get back to a normal length? For example, my cycles prebaby were 28 days on the nose, but some of my DDC ladies said that it took two-three cycles to get back to normal, and that their PP cycles were much longer than previous. What is your normal cycle length now and what was it prebaby? I'm calculating my cycle based on the 28 days I used to have, and according to that I should be Oing this week. But there is no telling when I will actually O, since it is likely my cycle will be off. So I'll have to keep an eye on CM as well.
This time around my cycles returned at 16 months and they were just like before, with a random weird cycle here or there. With my son it was the same...came back at around 18 months and were back to normal when they came back.
Michelle SAHM to K (3/2004) H (8/2006) P (7/2011) & we're missing Finley Jonas born still, July 27, 2010
Hi all. Dropping in to follow this thread. I have a 19m/o daughter (9/12) who still nurses several times throughout the day and overnight. I haven't gotten my first PP period and wasn't TTC (or planning on TTC soon) but am having some cramps, gas, nausea, that whole deal, after having sex 8-9 days ago; before having my daughter I rarely had PMS symptoms, especially not cramps. I have no idea whether I've ovulated and the odds are pretty small that I'd be pregnant, but once that thought is in your head it's hard to shake until you have confirmation! I see lots of people with similar symptoms that turned out to be a pregnancy, but also see lots with VV's experience of weeks of this leading to a period after extended nursing. So, just hanging out to see what happens. :)
We've been trying since January, I'm on cycle 5 (? maybe it's 6). They're hella short, ~24 days with ovulation on day 17ish (that's today, so that technically puts me in the 2ww?). Which I only just found out because I finally got some OPKs. So we're trying a bunch this month to lengthen that luteal phase - b-100 complex, I've got acupuncture Wednesday, and vitex right now. I'm tempted to go out and get that progesterone cream, too, but undecided so far. I suspect I had a chemical pregnancy last month, and would really prefer to avoid that happening again.
My daughter is finally sleeping through the night as of the last month or so, and I'm hoping that will finally do the trick. But we're also being visited by the molar fairy, so who knows how the next few nights will go.
If you've managed to finish this novel, I've got a question: I've still got about 30 capsules from having my placenta encapsulated, and I'm wondering if they will help lengthen my cycle? I know supposedly there's progesterone in there, and that progesterone would in theory lengthen that luteal phase. Anybody know anything about that?
Hi Potpie, welcome. I have updated the list with your info. I am not really familiar with tips for lengthening the LP, but maybe this article would help? One of my sisters DDCers said she had really good luck with Vitex.
I'm still waiting to O, I took an OPK this morning and nothing, only a faint line. According to my past 28 day cycle length, this would be O day, but we shall see. Since I'm still BFing my hormones will still be a little wacky. I'll keep checking.
I know lots of people take vitamin B to lengthen LP. Don't remember what B vitamins or what doses, but I am sure a google search will give you some of that info.
SAHM to Chloe«- 6/2008 (10 lbs, 5 oz), Hannah- 9/2010 (9 lbs, 12 oz), Liam- 2/2013 (9 lbs, 6 oz)
I want to jump in. My dh and I have a 26 month old DS and we have been ttc since Dec 2012. We actually got pregnant last summer, but miscarried at 11 weeks. DS is still nursing. He was nursing several times at night, but as of last week, he only nurses before bed, in the morning, and before nap. So that's good! I'm hoping that reducing his feedings will jump start my ovulation.
I do have a ovulation question from you nursing mamas with personal experience....if I am having "egg white" CM around ovulation time, is that a strong indicator that I am fact ovulating? I would certainly assume so, but I'm also sure that nursing (and not sleeping for more than a few hours in a row for the past year...) are effecting my cycles now and I'm not even sure I'm ovulating. Before getting pregnant I charted carefully and tracked temps, but haven't been taking temps since giving birth since I am literally up out of bed several times a night to nurse/comfort/etc my 13 month old. Thanks for any insight
Hello. I just joined mothering.com today and I am working on reading through the old threads on TTC/breastfeeding! My son is 24 months old and I have not had a peroid yet. He BF 4 times during the day and I have stopped pumping at home (he used to BF 5-6 times/day and occasionally at night and I used to pump 1-2 times/day at home). He is weaned at night and I work 1-2 days/week. I would like to continue to BF while TTC and allow LO to wean naturally and at his own pace, but my husband is over 40 and doesn't want to wait much longer. I am glad to find others in similar situations for support and advice. Thank you.
Should be updated to here.
@HappyMama2013, from what I hear, EWCM is a good indicator of ovulation, but not all people have it. (see comment below)
I started taking OPKs Thursday and kept getting negatives each time. Then I forgot to test this morning, but I tested when I got home, and forgot to look at the test, then tested again before bed and my initial test looked positive and my second test was negative, so I think I Oed, but not sure. I have had EWCM as of this morning, HappyMama, and I guess the OPKs means you're going to O in the next 12-24 hours, so there is that. I have also been having some light ovarian cramping. Did I mention my DH is out of town?! He left yesterday...so we DTD around noon Sunday, but now it looks like O will be on Tuesday. I'm not sure if I should move myself to the TWW or if I should keep testing and hope that the first test was actually a negative, and I might catch it when my DH gets back in town. But I don't have high hopes for a BFP this month. I'll probably keep testing, just because I'm curious now.
Well, I only posted here once but I am pregnant!!! One shot first try and surprised at 13 mo pp with a breast fiend. Wish I could have gotten to know you ladies, but I wish you all good luck and a peaceful TTC journey.
Wife to my Sweetness and Light, DH (03), WAHM to DS('01), DS('11), and DS('13). Encouraging mothers everywhere to write for their lives. Expecting our fourth and final baby( It's a GIRL!!!) in January 2015.
Congrats, @writermama12. I hope to join you over there in the January DDC!
@TPerkins, if you just got the positive on the OPK, I was told that actual ovulation would be 12-24 hours after that. But you should definitely start getting busy. I've heard people say every other day, which is what we did when we were still waiting for a positive OPK, but it seems to me like you could go both today and tomorrow if you have that positive OPK. I am by no means an authority however, and I'm not sure of what the common wisdom is. And, congratulations!
Edited to add: I was talking with some of my past DDC friends and it appears the every other day recommendation is if men have a lower sperm count, in order to help increase the potency. With a high sperm count,every day is fine....if you're up for it. But since you know you got the positive OPK, I would say go for it!
I want to chime in on ovulation. Not to be the bearer of bad news but EWCM and positive OPKs only show that you are gearing up to ovulate. Unfortunately ovulation can't be confirmed by them. Temping and charting CM can help but only a doctor can truly conif ovulation. In my case I think I am ovulating but not having strong ovulation. I am down to nursing my son once a night. Last cycle I was nursing twice a day but ovulated CD15 like I used to. I really hope I can get pregnant whilst nursing. I know some women just can't. We will wean at 24 months (he's 20 now) if we aren't pregnant yet.
Good luck ladies!
Thanks for the info, Warriorcandy. It is nice to at least have some insight on when it might be, especially since my cycle is still wonky. I didn't realize that about the EWCM being a sort of precursor. I am pretty new to tracking all of this. I will start temping next month if I don't get a BFP this month. At any rate, with the absence of any noticable CM at this point, and the fact that my DH was out of town this week when I presumably would have Oed, I'm not really holding out hope for this cycle. Also, my LO is also 20 months, were you in the September 2012 DDC? I was late August. We are also planning on weaning at 24 months if we're not pregnant by then.
I'm kind of bitter over here. I'm 4DPO on cycle 5 and I just feel like I should be pregnant by now. I am down to one session a night with my son and really praying I can get kU without weaning that but I'm not optimistic at this point. Ugh. I hate TTC
I don't post much, but wanted to share.
I currently nurse my 15 month old. She exclusively nurses - will eat some banana on certain days, but that's it. She nurses several times a night and a lot during the day (maybe every 2 hours?)
My cycles have been either very short (21 days) or very long - at least for me - (34 days). My luteal phase has been as short as 8 or 9 days and one that i know was 12 days. Otherwise, I think they have been mostly 9 or 10 days.
This cycle has been pretty wonky. I think my body was ready to ovluate around day 13/14, but the baby was nursing at least every 30 min to an hour - I mean a ton! I think she pushed ovulation over a bit. I finally ovulated on day 19. I took a hpt on 7dpo and the test was negative. I then took another one the next day (8dpo) and that too was negative. On that same day, I started spotting. I thought for sure i would be getting AF. By the end of the day it pretty much stopped. The next day (9 dpo) I spotted very very little and my temperature dropped under the cover line. this has happened before, so I expected my period either that day or the next. Well, this morning, 10dpo, my temp spiked above the cover line. i was surprised. I had one last pregnancy test (first response) and so i decided to test. I expected it to be neg, but it came up clearly positive. I am thrilled but cautious. I want to wait a few days to test again. We shall see!
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