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i must have been posting at the same time as you tina
i am so sorry. i can not imagine the feeling of your news
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i switched to full site
can't see your pics
ffs it says you need url for pics.
it used to be like this before. i had to load pics on photobuckt
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Wait, what?! This picture issue is unacceptable.

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wait, will the paperclip icon work instead???
testing with one, sorry for the totally unrelated picture

edit: hey, yeah.. that worked...
....and now it's gone. wth
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wait, will the paperclip icon work instead???
testing with one, sorry for the totally unrelated picture

edit: hey, yeah.. that worked...
....and now it's gone. wth
I saw the link and clicked on it an could see the pic....
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I saw the link and clicked on it an could see the pic....
OK and here is my test to upload a pic while using my phone, but using desktop version and the paperclip (ugh not easy)
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Can you tell I'm off work today, lol?

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OK and here is my test while using my phone, but using desktop version (ugh not easy)
I can see it! But I tried desktop from phone and can't do anything but upload from a URL. Getting so pissed!
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I haven't been getting notifications for the past couple of days, this new site is so weird! Ok lots to reply to.

@tinytina I am so sorry. I'm trying not to cry at work right now. I know how devastated you must be. Of course you want to have your husbands biological kids, it's only natural. I'm thinking of you and praying that everything works out for you and DH. I know it's hard to think positive in a time like this but just know you are one step closer to having a bigger, more precious family. My last day of work is June 30th ( I believe it was you who asked).

@rosie2727 I know you're hesitant to get your hopes up but at least DH is back on board. Even if this isn't a BFP, at least you can get back to trying. I am hoping the best for you!

@ayme371 That is so fun! I think I'll try it now when I know I'm for sure not pregnant and then again when there's a chance I am. I love that sort of thing.


AFM, I'm doing pretty well. Busy taking care of my new, very needy kitten and trying to enjoy every day with DH. I'm starting to face the realities of what a new baby will bring and I don't ever want our relationship to suffer or be put on the back burner (which I've been told will happen regardless). So I'm working on strengthening things while I can.


Sorry for anyone I left out! I've missed quite a few posts. Wishing all of you happy baby thoughts!


P.S. Jenjy and Rosie, I can't see either of your pics!

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I can see it! But I tried desktop from phone and can't do anything but upload from a URL. Getting so pissed!
Ugh, what?! The mountain icon asks for a url but the paperclip option let me go search my phone for a pic. Could be a difference in OS. Ugh!!!

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@tinytina I'm so sorry for your results. You're right, this is so unfair. Your right to be angry and devastated. I'm in awe in your positivity. How is your husband doing?
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Ugh, what?! The mountain icon asks for a url but the paperclip option let me go search my phone for a pic. Could be a difference in OS. Ugh!!!
Nowhere am I getting an option to search photos on phone. And I never upload from my computer! I may have to start....I get off at noon central time. Maybe I can post a pic this afternoon....
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Nowhere am I getting an option to search photos on phone. And I never upload from my computer! I may have to start....I get off at noon central time. Maybe I can post a pic this afternoon....
I've been trying to post photos onto the grad thread and just deleting useless posts. The pregnancy "safe haven" I have found is now just an annoying conglomeration of bad coding and not user friendly like it was 48 hours ago.

BTW, I hope you have gotten your positive! You're always in my thoughts!

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I've tried to post at least 3 times. I hopes this works.. I'm sooo annoyed at these changes.

Tiny tina..i am so sorry. My heart aches for you.

I will write more and post a pic this when works again...

POWERS THAT BE...PLEASE CHANGE THIS BACK to the way it worked 2 days ago.
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I've been trying to post photos onto the grad thread and just deleting useless posts. The pregnancy "safe haven" I have found is now just an annoying conglomeration of bad coding and not user friendly like it was 48 hours ago.

BTW, I hope you have gotten your positive! You're always in my thoughts!


Congratulations! !!! So happy for you. I lurked for awhile and I remember you! Awesome!!!
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I posted my pic on the desktop site but you have to click the link.

Took a $ store and pink line is getting darker, within the time.

Took a frer and there is also a light pink but can't get a pic to show it.

I dontdon't know what I've posted and what I havent...but as soon as this is fixed will post more....I'm about to pull my my hair out

How can i get clear, yet faint pink line on a $ store, quickly and a squinted on a frer (and I'm afraid that I'm imagining that) ? HOW???

AND IM SOO FRUSTRATED WITH WHAT WAS DOE TO THIS SITE. IT WAS SO USAR FRIENDLY AND ENJOYABLE TO USE AND NOW I'VE SPEAK HRS AND HAVE BEEN ABLE TO DO NOTHING! caps on sorry

I'm so worried and upset with myself that I allowed myself to get hopes up this month. All my symptoms felt soo different than other months. My chart looks good. Timing was good and now at 15dpo, 1 day late (I haven't gone past 15dpo in a super long time), pretty much nothing....except an unreliable $ store line and a barely there squinter on a frer..3 actually. Yep... used all 3(like an idiot) cause I was sure there would be something there. And out $15 on wasted tests.

So tired of chemicals and early miscarriages. I just want my bright double lines. Sorry for my tantrum and whiny negativity. Just so disappointed! : (

I will force myself to get it off my mind and be grateful for what I have and enjoy a sunny afternoon with my ds!!!!
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Nowhere am I getting an option to search photos on phone. And I never upload from my computer! I may have to start....I get off at noon central time. Maybe I can post a pic this afternoon....

I used the desktop mode and it allowed to search my phone for a pic and I think a link for the pic posted on the desktop version. I used both from my phone. Maybe that would work. I want to see that line of yours.
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ayme: can't see any pics if you've posted some. I'm going to try to now.

FRER Faint BFP.jpg

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So it all went down like this: Wed am, shadow on First Signal that I posted tweaked pic of. So took FRER at lunch, saw nothing, took it apart while wet (bad), starting thinking I could see a shadow (no color). Left. Came home that day and it was dry and had that pink line. Thur am, took the FRER I just posted above (SMU), never took it apart, and this faint line was there in time limit. So had blood test that afternoon. It was negative. Beta was 4.4. So I took the Walmart version FRER this am and another faint bfp. I'm certain it's something, non viable, but it can't be a fluke that I'd get 4 faint bfps in one cycle from 3 diff brands. Ugh. At least DH is back on board to continue trying. Had me near mental breakdown mode.
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Rosie, you're not out yet, and I'm going to send all the sticky pregnant vibes I can! When is AF due? I'm going to continue stalking you!

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Smile fingers crossed

2014-05-30 07.39.53.jpg

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@rosie I see your lines and your right. They cannot all be flukes. There is something going on. Fingers crossed that it will stick and just take longer to show up. Stay positive. .hubby is on board...awesome!
Thanks for letting me know that nothing shows for me. I thought it worked.

I attached 3 pics. I put the reversed image in there because I shows the line and IRL it is definitely there. I don't get it. Trying not to be discouraged. Sad to think of another chemical, I'm actually 1 day later than I ever am and just confused.

@ jenjy I think these show but have no idea why $ store showed quick and much darker and frer a squinter at best. Hoping AF stays away and lines actually mean something.
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I can see your pics now. Geez, you'd think we were in competition for most ambiguous faintest BFPs ever! I'm also sick of chemicals. I don't feel good about this one either. FF says I'm 15dpo, but I had horrible temps all around then, didn't even temp on day 15, and I almost always O on day 15. Got pos OPK at night on cd13. If I didn't o til 15, then I could be 13dpo today. But again, I still think these should be much darker. Fingers crossed for you but I have zero hope for myself....
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AF is due tomorrow or Sunday for me...
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Question I can't tell what pics are showing...PIA

Hoping these are easier to see....gotta stop obsessing.
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You're pregnant, @rosie2727 -- non-pregnant women don't typically have an hcg of 4.4 and you are definitely getting lines. I would be watching for a progression. Not on any brand or a mix of brands, because I don't think most brands are great for progression. But I think a FRER progression would be telling. So far, for the two FRERs you did take, it appears the line is getting darker.

@ayme371 , I definitely see it on the dollar tree. It looks good! That is bonkers about how light the FRER is.

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Oh Rosie and Ayme I'm so hopeful for the both of you!!

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I can see your pics now. Geez, you'd think we were in competition for most ambiguous faintest BFPs ever! I'm also sick of chemicals. I don't feel good about this one either. FF says I'm 15dpo, but I had horrible temps all around then, didn't even temp on day 15, and I almost always O on day 15. Got pos OPK at night on cd13. If I didn't o til 15, then I could be 13dpo today. But again, I still think these should be much darker. Fingers crossed for you but I have zero hope for myself....
I hear ya...FF said the same for me. Positive opk on day 13, usually 16 or 17. 5he got another positive opk on day 16. Better signs of the ovulation on day 13 and better coverage, decent coverage for day 16 . FF changed my ovulation day to 16. So I have no idea. I am due for AF today. My pictures are crappy , have some better ones but can't find where I saved them. Giant WTF?!

Giant FX for both of us...The games there tests are playing stink...you've got a few days for yours to darken up so try to stay positive.

If this turns out to be ??? Then I'm think about going to the doc and using progesterone for after ovulation. Maybe I need some glue. Hoping my body can do this solo but if I have to have a little hand..it will be worth it.

Have you thought about using anything to help the little stick?
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???

What the heck is this all about. Found my frer with a line. It's actually from early today. I think it's easier to see. Just want to know stay away AF.
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Dammit, I had a long reply get eaten!

On prog from O til bfn/AF. Aspirin daily.

We only DTD late like midnight late on cd13...got only pos OPK about two hours prior. I always o on 15, it's def reasonable to say I O'd on 15 and am 13dpo. Still...betas should be way more than 4.4 for 12dpo. Damn chemicals...will probably still test all weekend til AF arrives cause I can.
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Dammit, I had a long reply get eaten!

On prog from O til bfn/AF. Aspirin daily.

We only DTD late like midnight late on cd13...got only pos OPK about two hours prior. I always o on 15, it's def reasonable to say I O'd on 15 and am 13dpo. Still...betas should be way more than 4.4 for 12dpo. Damn chemicals...will probably still test all weekend til AF arrives cause I can.


I have a few choice words for those chemicals...don't want.to.gwt kicked.off though. I've bee doing the supplements vitamins.multi ,.coq10, omega 3, L- arginine, women's multi, acai, baby asprin, hubby on honey goat root, maca, thinking about vitex too (he is only 33 but some mess mess with him, we got together when he was 29, me 36 and OMG...gave me a serious workout and got me in awesome shape, sorry if tmi, but with the meds he is on make.the libido drop and we are working on that).
Anyway. After the chemical last month (blaring positive one day before i was due, next am started spotting but still positive, overnight I blead heavily and next am test was neg) we were so excited. Never imagined I'd have any trouble having a baby. Just figured we would when we were ready. Then all of a sudden I'm 40..WTF? Didn't think much of it and spent a few.months letting nature do its thing and we got 2 chemicals (November and april) we decided to DTD every day this month and I started keeping better track of FF. We did pretty well with, but missed 2 days(sick)mid cycle (right around the time FF changed my ovulation date). It really shouldn't have made a difference...???

Did you have progesterone tested? And did yiu start using after chemical preg? Did your doc prescribe and give you a script or get it at health store? Cream or suppositories? Sorry for all the questions, I have not gone to the doc, ppart fear and admitting that I need help, stupid righ. Anyway if you don't want to answer questions, I totally understand, no worries, curious and interesting to find someone with such similar stuff happen recently. It's weird...i dont feel or look my age and it just never occurred to.me to worry. I laughed about the clock ticking...guess it's not so funny anymore. Just think I need some help sticking. One of many mantras...my body is strong and will!!! No AF here....anyone have a dance to keep her away....i didn't invite her.

Keeping FX crossed for you. Stay positive. ..
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