Originally Posted by chilee
Sorry I wasn't aware that things are changing
. I am sorry I have been here so long. Maybe I don't belong here
Change is change
the threads all used to move very quickly pre facebook...lol
it was mothering or yahoo groups.
This thread is evolving to reflect current needs
Everyone should feel welcome
btw once again.. waiting to know
@ chili. ..why do you feel like you might not belong here? Of course you do. If your ttc, and you are, this is the place to be girl
I hope.you dont feel this way because of the current drama and stuff. I'm hoping that all has been resolved, I think everyone has been able to express their feelings and is feeling better now. I don't want you to go anywhere. ..do you feel it's an age thing or something else? If tou want to pm me and talk about it that would be great. Btw...I'm glad you say the post I wrote to.you at the end of the May thread. I know we haven't been directly chatting much but I feel.like I know you based on lurking on the 40+ page (I was a bit afraid to post for some.silly reason), and from what I've read here you and I have quite a bit in common. So please don't go anywhere. I agree all should feel welcome. I suffer from foot in mouth syndrome
and I'm older than most here and I love the group and have felt very supported and try my best to support others here. So let us er rip. Why are you feeling this way? And please don't feel like you should go elsewhere?
... I hope you don't go anywhere either. I haven't seen you here since the drama and miss you. I understand and am so happy that you've graduated but would love for you to stop and chat and check in. I'm sure that some lingering worries are with you, even though I'm sure you will hold a warm bundle of joy before long, but I haven't been around as long as others , but would never want you to feel like you've got to fend for yourself. I really do feel like the drama has passed and hope nobody feels scared away because of it. I hope I didn't add fuel...to the issue, I just like to see things from all points of view. Mistakes happen and in my book they should be forgiven and left behind. So , let us celebrate with you and support you should you need any reassurance or anything at all.
. ..YAY! PAPER IS FINISHED! Now it's time to get too what you've been ever so patiently waiting for. I sincerely hope the IUI is quick and easy. Keep us posted on the whole done process..it's so interesting. Do you think you'll try to find someone with similar characteristics of you and DH?
...I've been one to drop a temp here and there. I hope it hasn't messed up my chart, but I would think that if you have had all the other symptoms of O then drop that temp in the trash and tell those annovulatory cycles to take a hike.
. ..good to know that TCOYF has that bit of info. Wondering if you found a good deal on your book. Paying full price is hard for me especially knowing I could pay less if I can find it used. So did you find a good spot to get a good deal? Hope all is going well for you.
j. ..I so hope you can relax and really start to enjoy and celebrate being prego. I must have missed your update by minutes and was going nuts waiting to find out all day, lol...I happy that my ideas helped you to feel better. I truly believe in the power of positive thinking!
caleata. .All going well for you?
. ..thanks for saying that. I often wonder if my wording comes across differently than I intended. It's good to know ...I hope I haven't stuck my foot in my mouth too much...lot. How are you? If I'm not mistaken I think we are pretty close in cycles as well.
...Hope I can get to know you better and that all is well!
ies. ..so happy AF left town before you did, for your camping trip. Hope you have an awesome time. It reminded me that we need to get out of town and do some camping as well. I've done my share of tent camping and backpacking but I read that there are some state parks nearby that actually rent yurts, and some are on big lakes and creeks so we could do some paddling too. I've always wanted to check out a yurt.Hope your having an awesome weekend!
...haven't seen you around lately. How's it going? Hope the drama didn't upset you too much. I miss your sparkiness and we are pretty close in our cycles. I need someone to help me not obsess.
@ anna1979...any test results back yet?
HI THERE, sorry if I missed anyone. Hope all is well.
AFM...I'm on 6 dpo . and starting to eye up the tests already...I think I might have a problem, lol. I know that it's ridiculous to try to test now but I'm soooo impatient. There is a book that I ran across last night that looked interesting and promises fast and easy pregnancy results but I'm a suckered for getting pulled into stuff like that. It's probably a bunch of crap, but I'll post the name of it and where I found it. The site itself has some pretty cool calculator tools for all sorts of stuff. Probably was a bunch of bananas too but it was kinda fun anyway. I'll stick the name of the book here and the site, hope that's ok, and I would love any opinions. Thanks again for.alll the input on the CBE monitor. I won't be dropping an exploration $200 on it. I'd rather save the money and see a TCM. I need to do something...I never thought it would take this long. I know I should expect a challenging road because of my age..I still feel like somebody is playing a joke on me, and a mean one..I do not feel 40 and I refuse to succumb to the prego challenges that come with the number.
I.hope everyone has an awesome weekend. I'm going to stay busy, DS is having a friend over and DH and I really need some quality time together.