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TTC problems and feeling sad

Hi everyone, I am posting here to ask for some support and advice. Well my husband and I were trying to conceive for 3 years now but there’s no been any luck. We’ve been through so many doctors and made so many tests but nothing so I am feeling a little down and stressful over this situation and I don’t really want to give up but I don’t know what to do. Has someone been in a similar situation?
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Have you only had testing done or have you had any fertility treatments? If not then I would make an appointment with your doctor to discuss what options would be suitable for your situation and then you and your husband can decide if it is the sort of thing you would want to do.


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Hi everyone, I am posting here to ask for some support and advice. Well my husband and I were trying to conceive for 3 years now but there’s no been any luck. We’ve been through so many doctors and made so many tests but nothing so I am feeling a little down and stressful over this situation and I don’t really want to give up but I don’t know what to do. Has someone been in a similar situation?
We are ttc for a long time with no goes. Unfortunately I've failed to get pregnant with my last egg donation round, I'm not young anymore and it scares so much, I'm worrying about my health state

and they didn't tell you the reason for your failures with conceiving? what tests have you done? did you try any kind of medicine like non traditional, different acupunctures and herbs? Any fertility treatments like iui icsi or ivf?
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Sorry, for your woes. I hope you can find help soon.
In the meantime, you need to find a clinic that is able to pinpoint exactly what the problem is. It will be helpful since you can then begin searching for a solution to the issue. That is certainly the first step for you to take in the issue.
Once a proper diagnosis is made it will be easy to either opt for surrogacy or go for IVF. No doubt this is something you require talking out with your partner as it requires one to be emotionally ready. Believe me when I tell you this as I am considering IVF as well.
I really hope that you can get down to the problem at hand and then move to finding other ways to get a child.
It can be difficult not knowing what the issue is as one keeps hoping there's nothing wrong with them. I waited a long time too before the Doctor found out I cannot carry a child due to high blood pressure after a series of miscarriages. Get yourself checked as soon as you can.
Good luck!
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Hey hun, *hugs* You need to take a deep breath and relax. Make sure you get all your tests done for yourself and your OH. Once you know the problem it will be easier for you to get the solution.
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Hi dear. I am really sorry about your situation, 3 years is a really long time and for anybody to found nothing that could explain it I know It´s just makes it worse, but you have to know that there are a lot of women suffering of similar things and we are all here to support each other so please don´t lose hope because surely all will get better. Also I think that maybe you should ask your doctor if there is a possibility for you to try other methods to conceive or maybe you should talk to a specialist on fertility and see what happens. I really wish you all the best and hope you´ll find the answers you need.
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It's so hurting. Having no kid means limit your world and your social circle because every where people asked about it. My sister is going through same situation. She is TTC'ing from 6 years But no success yet. She tried many specialist. And went through lots of ultrasounds, blood test. All test are normal. Now she is thinking to go aboard for fertility treatment. But worried about the expenses. She has no insurance for it. She have to bear all expenses by herself. Why it happens to only few people? Some people have 8 kids and someone has no one. It's so disappointed just felt like loneliness.
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@millionducks , What is your suggestions about surrogacy? Is it better option yo go for surrogacy instead of IVF? As IVF cost much higher than other fertility treatment. This is fact that IVF success rate is higher. As far I know about IUI, mostly it gives you success in 4-6 rounds. I want to know much more about surrogacy. What about expenses If someone goes aboard for it? My sister is interested in it. She wants to know whether she can afford it or not. She's really tired of waiting for little angel. Although she has a lovely family. Her husband is very supportive. But instead of all this she couldn't get rid of depression. Thanks in advance for your kind help.
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Really sorry for your sister. The clinic where I had my IVF also provides surrogacy programs. And, as I said, it was in Ukraine. It was way more affordable for me there. And actually, they have pretty good service. I can tell you more in private if you want, but mostly about the clinic itself, as I don't know that much about surrogacy. I can send you the link on the website later, I think, they have prices there
Hey there! My aunt recently had her mind made up for surrogacy. She is not exactly sure about it at the moment. She has tried everything else. I have also posted a thread for her. She is dearer than my mom to me. She raised me. She invested her love and valuable time in me. I just can't see her in pain anymore. I thought may be I can get some information and help here. I have been doing my own research for a few weeks now. Ukraine has some very good and some bad clinics as well. I am not sure which one are you talking about. The one I am considering for my aunt is a pretty economical and has very high success rates. They are also offering free consultation but we haven't gone for it yet.
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Wondering if this is a scam/ someone pretending to be a woman ttc to advertise a clinic... will let admins know.


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Hi everyone, I am posting here to ask for some support and advice. Well my husband and I were trying to conceive for 3 years now but there’s no been any luck. We’ve been through so many doctors and made so many tests but nothing so I am feeling a little down and stressful over this situation and I don’t really want to give up but I don’t know what to do. Has someone been in a similar situation?

Do not loose hope. If you are facing problem in conceiving naturally. There are many ways to get pregnant, you must hear about IVF, IUI and surrogacy. You can consider one of the option. Good Luck.
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Hi, thank you for sharing your feelings. After trying for almost 3 years, we decided to come to Storks for help. Luckily, I only had to wait for few weeks before my 1st appointment. I had 2 IUI's but I conceived after the 1st IVF cycle. Storks team is very friendly and helpful. I'm currently pregnant, and it saved my money a lot, prices are much better than in Europe. Storks https://ovu.com/ukraine/kiev/fertili...rrogacy-agency
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Hello, Kloey! I hope you are not in stress now. Stress may worsen the situation. IVF or surrogacy can be an answer to your problem. This will give you a baby from both of your flesh.
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