Join Date: Sep 2002
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I start with wanting babies. If I'd have thought about dd's whole life I would have been much more intimidated. So, I signed on for the baby and the rest seems to be working itself out. I feel the same this time. I feel a strong urge to be pregnant, so I guess it's time. As for having two, I don't know any more about that than I did about having one before dd showed up. I'm certain that will work itself out too.
Dh, surprisingly, is completely on board with our plan for #2, so I know I'll have lots of support, and vice versa.
Dd is 18 mos now, so she will be at least 2 1/2 if there's a new babe. I think she'll be fine if we are fine.
5 years seems like lots of time for 2 more dks. Say you have the next one in a year's time, your second would be almost four if you snuck #3 just before the deadline.
My dh is strong minded also. Once he makes his mind up, it usually made up.