Yep, that's right, we want another baby but are officially trying NOT to get pg this month. It's my first cycle back after my m/c and we have an appt with an RE on May 1st.
It's killing me to "waste" a cycle but it will kill me even more to get pg and miscarry again I'm convinced that I need progesterone suppositories to stay pg and I need my RE for that so....we're waiting impatiently until next cycle!!
We have been TTC for 8 cycles, but we really don't want a Christmas baby! So we decided to let the egg go this month. It has been really hard to just say no this time. I guess I've discovered that I just really want a baby no matter the birthday! Luckily, I O'd on Wednesday (three days early : ) and I've had a bit of a yeast infection, so the decision was over before I really had a chance to obsess.
I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I've never been there so I can't relate, but I do want to give you a big . I hope that all goes well with you RE and next time you get that sticky baby.
Mom to dd1 7/00 , dd2 12/03 , and ds 2/07 - home forever 9/07 In raising my children, I have lost my mind but found my soul. -Lisa T. Shepherd
I so know how you feel. We were waiting for insurance, which kicked in April 1. I was all set to go April 1, until I realized I really needed to wait until my first AF *after* April 1 in order for the insurance co. to count the pregnancy as covered. Argh! At least no Christmas baby, I suppose, but I wouldn't have cared really about that kind of timing if it meant I could have another baby.