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Old 04-17-2003, 11:12 AM - Thread Starter
 
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I talked to him yesterda....he knows there is a good chance we got pg this month.....

And he said, "Yes, I can see us having a second. Just not right now. We are no where near ready for a baby."

he's only had a job for a couple months after being unemployed for 6. Then he went on to say that if I did get pg this month he'll still be happy about it but he wishes it could have been better timing.

YAY! I know he thinks this isn't the time....which is all I wanted to hear to begin with. I was just bothered because he said no never without ever really talking to me about it. So, now that I know that he will one day like a second child I don't feel as.......obsessed with the fact that it has to happen NOW. Of course I want it to be NOW...but I'm also willing to wait a little while......

But I still hope this is the month! kwim?

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Old 04-17-2003, 11:33 AM
 
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That's great, Megan! I knew he'd turn around!

Just curious, but what does C 3/03 mean in your sig?

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Hope you both get what you want and can handle. Good thing he is cautious about taking on more responsibility, and sees that you two aren't ready! Some people just don't think about such huge responsibilities as properly parenting...

Good luck and hope it all works out for the best.
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Yay Megan!!! I knew he would come around! Good luck!

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Old 04-17-2003, 04:19 PM - Thread Starter
 
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We're pretty sure that I had a chemical pregnancy last month.....

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