Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: brett favre's house
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I am so very sorry. I know the heartbreak you are experiencing. I had two miscarriages, although they were not "in a row". I know some folks wont recommend the "workup", but i recommend it. I think you will feel better knowing....even if nothing comes of it, kwim?
This kind of sadness does not necessarily go away, i "moved on", meaning, I am thinking about it right now and am very sad. Yes, i have three healthy children, but i still wonder about "what could have been". I too felt "worse" after my second miscarriage....like you i was "past" my danger period and gotten one heck of a flu, meaning the baby was a keeper. imagine my suprise and horror when i started spotting at 15 weeks. It was awful, and i shudder almost 6 years later thinking about it.
Eat small meals, sip some hot tea, put your feet up, rest. Let yourself feel and grieve, cry and sob. do not hold it in. come here as often as you need, to "talk" about it and share. we are here for you, for as long as it takes.
hugs to you, Lisa