Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Dutchgirl in Antwerp
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Thanks for your replies. Swd, I'm sorry you had a rough time going through treatments..
I think that we've already settled the issue of fertility treatments - I don't want any more (even though I only had an IUI, I thought it was awful). I had always thought that we would keep trying (with or without help) until I'm menopausal, but now I find myself wondering if there shouldn't be a clear "cut". I guess, as it seems less and less likely that it'll still happen, I'm starting to rationalize and find ways to be ok with that ("Imagine how hard it would be to be up all night again" etc.). And then, if and when I reach a point that I'm ok with that, we should make it "official". I hope I'm making sense..
The other thing is, even though we're currently not actively trying, I still feel so bad each month when I get my period. I can't keep myself from hoping, fantasizing, and maybe I just want to stop putting myself through that all the time.
I clearly have some more thinking to do, and you both gave me some more things to think about, thanks.
mama to my August boys ('03 & '06)