I am so happy to find this board. I could have written many of these posts. I made the mistake of sharing that we were TTC #2 with my mom and sis and they are constantly asking me detailed questions, pressuring me to pursue other -more invasive options etc. I finally got the courage to tell them that it is none of their business and it's between me and my husband. I had all the bloodwork done. We may do SA but the HSG-xray the tubes thing really freaks me out. I was surprised the OB/GYN suggested that as a non-invasive test because it sounds so invasive to me!
Anyway, I see an accupuncturist and an Naturopathic Dr. and I feel very comfortable with them and their plans. My husband and I also conceived our first child very quickly-within the first 2months. Now it's been over a year TTC #2 so it's frustrating. But, we are at the point now where we are ok with continued trying-not going to do IUI, IVF etc......and if it wasn't meant to be that we have another then there is some reason for that beyond our control. We love our first born with all of hearts and we love our family the way it is. For us, IUI, IVF and other methods would cause stress, anxiety and I'd end up missing out on the joys in life and the wonderful experiences we have with the child who is already here.
Anyway, nice to know I'm not alone on not wanting the mainstream medical route for us.