I'm a wahm for an insurance company. Have your doc resubmit the claim with any dx you have that is the confirmed/possible underlying medical cause of your infertility. Many plans cover the cost to treat and test for the underlying medical reasons. They won't deny treatment that is medical. Maybe you have pain during menses or irregular cycles. Just any other medical dx should work. Even women who aren't ttc would want their pain or possible medical conditions treated. PM me if you need more info.
Married 2002. Adopted 1 DD. Planning in vitro for 2012 due to low egg reserve.
Me 30 WAHM, DH 58 SAHD (5 adult children from ex #1).
DD dob 5/13/07 came home 2007, 5 months old via foster care. Adopted 2009, almost 3 years old.
DD is high functioning autistic. She keeps us laughing and exhausted!