okay. my honest thoughts. 35 is still young. don't give up yet on your partner's dream. for uterine lining, you can ask your RE to prescribe viagra (not sexy, horrid when used this way, but it can really make a difference to lining quality & thickness when started at with stims). also, I'd be aggressive about immunological and implantation issues if good embryos aren't sticking. if her embryos are good quality, & she's producing enough to cycle (she doesn't need dozens) then diminished ovarian reserve isn't so scary in a woman of 35. is she being given heparin? corticosteroids? ivig therapy? after multiple unsuccessful cyles, I would be insist that my RE go for the whole kit and caboodle, and if he or she doesn't, I wouldn't waste my time - I'd change clinics. I'd also ensure my clinic was at the very top in terms of statistics - it does make a big difference. very best of luck to you.