My Name is Missy, and I lurk here every day
You are actually my first post here.
I also have PCOS/Insulin resistane.. Plus I was just DX'd with hashimoto Thyroiditis..I have 3 very beautiful children, so it can happen. My babies are Herbal babies, we tried Fertility treatment and such but it just never worked for us. It took us 8 whole yrs too get our second.. That was a very rough time for me. My girlfriend who never had IF problems, had 2 children too my Madison *lol*
This wonderful DEAR friend who had 2 chidren too my Madison * who was out 8 yr jorney* I remember her calling me, and telling me she was PG.. I was sooooooooo Sad whenever she did so, but ya know thinking back.. It was normal. I would simply tell her, that I had too hang up with her, and go brood for a while. She totally understood, but she was cheering squad, so I really feel she knew how I felt at times like this. This situation is never easy, at least from where I sit. I think when you tell her, just be kind, and understand if she hurts, or feels resentful. This is really a tough spot for someone like you too be in. I feel for both of you. I am not very good at offering advise on things like this. I sure hope others here have words of wisdom for you!
Good Luck, with however you approach your friend