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I've been down that road. No, it isn't fun, but at the same point, going to a doctor can help you understand what is going on.
Things you can start doing now:[list=1]
[BBT (basil body temp) Do this everyday and you can learn 2 VERY important things: 1 are you ovulating and 2 how long is your luteal phase (the time between ovulation and menstration).
If you have a temp rise around the middle of your cycle, then you are releasing progesterone which is a strong indicator of ovulation.
Then if you have 10 or more days between ovulation and menstration, you have a long enough luteal phase to allow an implantation. If this is less than 10 days, you may need to suppliment with progesterone during the later half of your cycle[/list=1][list=2] Track your cervical fluid. If you never see what is called egg white cervical fluid, then you may want to take some Evening primrose oil during the first half of your cycle. This egg white stuff helps with Sperm transport. Without it, you might not be allowing too many sperm to get to your eggs.
If you decide to see a doctor, a simple blood test will check for abnormal hormone levels. This is generally done on cycle day 3 and you can learn if you are producing enough of SEVERAL hormones that are needed to help produce a baby.
Your husband might have a problem with his sperm. A sperm analysis might be needed. Basically, he make a contribution to a happy cup and the doctor's lab examine for abnormal sperm, count, and motility.
There are natural remedies to try that can help sperm production and luteal phase disorders. If you are not ovulating, this may require a medicine to help you ovulate.
I would start with charting your temps for 3 months. The fact that you have long cycles indicates that there is an ovulation issue (to me).
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't feel that infertility means you HAVE to take medicines. There are plenty of natural ways to address problems in the reproductive system and the first thing is to see if there is a problem.
Also, remember that your reproduction is just like any other part of your body. You can still get sick if you exercise or eat well. So too can you have a problem in the reproductive area.
I decided on the meds path, but I have plenty of experience with the natural route.
Please feel free to pm me.