Thanks to you both for the support.
For now I've decided my next step is a fertility monitor, because my BBT charts are confusing to me, and I've never gotten the hang of checking my cm.
It's a irritatingly designed device. To set it up you have to turn it on and set it up at the time you want to test each day. You must do this by cycle day 5, and since I bought it on cycle day 5, and turned it on at 5:00 I have my six hour window then for the rest of this cycle. You have to test with FMU so, I will be storing urine for the rest of the test period, while we are having company who don't know we are TTC.
I've also decided to keep working for a little while longer with my accupuncturist who is great, but not a fertility specialist, and with the bodywork I'd doing.
I had a lot of accidents as a kid, and they left me with bone bruises and according to one practioner alot of compression of the adrenals. I'm hoping that as we address that my hormones will come into balance more.
One of my secret worries is that I can conceive, but not hang onto a baby, and I figure getting my body in balance can only help with that.