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September


The Infertility ONE Thread

A monthly thread to talk about all of our various journeys through the difficult, trying, and often heartbreaking world of infertility. This thread is a place to chat, vent, get support, cheer each other on, and hopefully occasionally laugh!

Trying to Conceive


barose TTC since 1999 (with intermittent breaks), 1 30wk MC, PCOS (treated with diet/ lifestyle) and Hypothyroid.

biomama TTC since November 2007. Waiting for a fall IVF.

blueyezz4 - Trying since July 06'. Started on the drug/IUI route in July. On hold with IUI in September due to being away on vacation at the prime time, but have plans to get back on the wagon in Oct.

Corikodjo 39, TTC since August of 2007,1 Chemical Pregnancy 11/07, on 2nd IUI

Crystal-mommy TTC #2 w/ PCOS on and off for 3 yrs. 2 clomid cycles-BFN, 1st cycle w/ femara

FayeO Tired mama to DD (1/03). TTC #2 since November 2005. Recently diagnosed with MFI (antisperm antibodies). Currently TTC with unmedicated IUIs. Had 3 failed IUIs prior to diagnosis and 2 failed IUIs since diagnosis (2 medicated, 3 unmedicated). On hold with IUI in August and September due to being out of town at prime time (what luck!).

gumby74 - ttc #2 with just the use of folic acid and baby aspirin. If not successful, we will do the hormone IUI route starting next cycle.

hope4light TTC since March 2006 with MFI and slightly low progesterone. Currently TTC with IVF with ICSI, cycle 1 round 1 and 2 canceled. Round 3 left me with a BFN.

jasminewb After five failed IUI's, starting my first (and hopefully only!) IVF cycle with Lupron supression on August 30th.

Katie34 - 35 yrs old, IF due to toxins from periodontal surgeries. Trying chinese herbs and sweats and other natural ways to make the body healthier.

LibbyLou TTC with PCOS. Cystic fibrosis carrier. Waiting on DH's blood test results to determine the next treatment.

lola88 37 years old (38 in December). TTC since October 2005. Finally got BFP in March '08 only to m/c at 9 weeks. Started first round of clomid 3 days ago, and starting first IUI in September.

MeadowMom - TTC#2 with PCOS and fibroids. Using Letrozole and HCG trigger.

OrganicSister - I have a 9 yr old son; TTC (my #2, his #1) since Jan of '03. We're just starting an IVF cycle this month.

organitarian - 29 y/o, been trying to concieve for 3 years. Metformin didnt work and tracking didnt work. Do not ovulate, overweight, currently using diet and exercise.

poetgirl TTC since October 2006 with low progesterone, possible LPD and hypothalamus dysfunction. Removed polyp 3/08. On 22nd cycle, doing IUI, acupuncture and pre-O cleanse. Progesterone in LP

Pookietooth - Jennifer, 42, married to Bill, 43. Diagnosed with PCOS 12 years ago, 1 DS (5 1/2). Tried to use diet, supplements, homeopathy, and herbs to conceive again, but then on my 42nd birthday decided to once again go to an RE. So far tried clomid, femara, and currently trying Follistim (supplementing with acupunture).

shastasue - 31 and living in Kansas. TTC for 2 years as of the end of June. Diagnosed with PCOS (insulin resistant), secondary to hypothyroidism caused by surgery and and radioiodine ablation for a tumor, and secondary autoimmune disease (Grave's). Had a lap done in April to remove a fibroid, an adhesion on the left ovary, and to remove a chocolate cyst on the right ovary and repair a ruptured cyst on my right ovary that was bleeding. DH has low motility as well (40%). Currently on Metformin, and was taking clomid before the cysts.

SimplyRochelle - Trying since May 2007, conceived in July 2008, m/c at 12 weeks. No treatments for now, just hoping for the best.

songbird45 TTC #1 with PCOS since January 2007 - Two failed Clomid cycles and no longer a candidate for Clomid. 3 failed Femara/IUI cycles. Still trying.

Tandy~36 yrs.~TTC #1 for 4 years (2 years with doctor and 1 year break) after 2 miscarriages due to hypercoagulation (blood clotting) solved by taking a blood thinner when i get pregnant again...taking Metformin 1500 mg daily...and natural progesterone cream after possible conception every ovulatory cycle...shouldn't take clomid due to a mood disorder so trying to avoid it...weight/nutrition issues due to other medications but now getting it under control by tapering off those medications and eating better and exercising...

Voltige - TTC #2 since 7/07; Recently diagnosed with endometriosis and PCOS but trying to conceive naturally for a few cycles post surgical laparoscopy

Taking a Break

EastbayK Taking a break while still hoping and dreaming

Held - TTC #1 since 2005 (although no prevention since late 2002). Dealing with mild MFI (low motility) and unexplained. Currently taking a break. :

kristenok18. TTC#2 since 2004, taking a break.

::: Graduates :::
(May everyone who passes through this thread find their way to this section)

Aly22681 TTC #1 since January 2007, 3 MCs. --> July 2008

Kiki99 TTC #1 since Apr 2007 (unexplained infertility) with DH. 1 unmedicated IUI - failed, 2 Clomid IUI's - failed and had my 4th IUI with injectables. --> July 2008

mischievium :TTC since February 2007 with MFI (antisperm antibodies) and possible mild congenital adrenal hyperplasia. Currently TTC with Clomid and IUI. --> July 2008

Jelly Bean TTC #2 since April 07. one unmedicated IUI, one month of just clomid, one month of clomid and 2 IUI's and this month we did injectibles and 2 IUI's. --> July 2008

Julia'sMom TTC#2 with PCOS. DD1 conceived with met, clomid & hcg. No response to clomid, starting IVF. --> July 2008

blueRhino TTC #1 since June 2007. TTC with Chinese herbs and acupuncture. --> September 2008

oregonduck - age 34 and DH, 31. TTC #1 since June 2007. In the beginning stages of infertility testing. Have done one Clomid cycle so far. --> September 2008

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blueRhino - Congratulations!!!! Have a happy, healthy, and completely boring pregnancy.

biomama - ha, the self-IUI is a great story! good luck in the tww!

Lola, I'm sorry to hear about your MIL. That has to be rough on you and DH. I hope you can be understanding - there's nothing in the world like losing a parent.

LibbyLou, welcome! I'm sorry you have to be here, but hope you get the support you are looking for.

blueyezz4 - enjoy your vacation!!

And me- I had a wonderful vacation, exactly what I needed. We went to the PA Rennaissance Faire, PA Amish Country, Hershey PA, and Harrisburg. We had a wonderful and relaxing time and I feel so much more ready to attack "real life" again.

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Hi Songbird- welcome back! Do you live in PA? I'm relatively close to Lancaster and Hershey.

You can change my info to TTC #2 since 7/07; Recently diagnosed with endometriosis and PCOS but trying to conceive naturally for a few cycles post surgical laparoscopy
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When it rains....it pours. I called my insurance company and found out that they don't cover anything in regards to infertility. When we conceived Andrew. we were with a different insurance provider. I really feel like I am at my breaking point.

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Voltige, I live in Ohio, so going to PA was sort of a nice escape.

Gumby, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you can come up with the money somehow. It's so hard when you put your heart and soul and financial stability on the line...

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Songbird where in ohio do u live? I live in WV..20 minutes from ohio. I actually work in ohio.

Gumby our insurance does not pay for IVF or "anything used to impregnante a person" Whatever that means!! I think it sucks.. some states have mandatory IF coverage... they all should. :


AAM went for 3rd vag u/s in a week... cyst on the right is getting smaller. I got an hcg shot... but the dr said i might have actually already ovulated. he said the hcg shot won't hurt anything if i already o'd, but obviously can't get preg if I didn't O yet. My DH is being a butt munch today... he has never been 100% supportive of the whole infertility thing. That is the reason we TTC for 3 yrs w/ no medical interventions... now I feel like he needs to shut the h*ll up and let me do what i need to!! I know that prolly isn't the best attitude in the world... but crap! I did it his way for 3 yrs and got nowhere! ugh! men!!
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Songbird That is the reason we TTC for 3 yrs w/ no medical interventions... now I feel like he needs to shut the h*ll up and let me do what i need to!! I know that prolly isn't the best attitude in the world... but crap! I did it his way for 3 yrs and got nowhere! ugh! men!!
I agree with you!

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crystal-mommy, I agree too! It is really hard to be on a different page than your DH. Maybe he needs a little more time to get used to the idea of assisted reproduction...

gumby74, you poor thing. It's been a rough week, eh? I HATE that insurance companies don't pay for IF treatment. And often they will pay for diagnostics, which can even be a waste of $ and time if what you need is the same treatment, no matter what the cause of the IF. Ug. Hang in there sweetie.

songbird45, welcome back. Glad you had a nice trip! That sounds great. I wish we could sneak away somewhere...

how's everyone else??

I'm doing ok- we had our IVF consult appt yesterday, and we got a potential "target date" in mid-Nov. We have the option of mini- v. conventional-IVF. Mini is stims with clomid and low dose gonadotrophins, pg rate per cycle for my age group 32-35%, ~$12K. Conv. is regular IVF, pg rate ~50%, cost $15-17K depending on med doses.

I think we're going to try conventional. The costs even out if you divide by pg rate (so cost per pregnancy is roughly the same). I came home really excited and hopeful, but then DH started complaining about the $. If we had to do more than one IVF, it would wipe out our savings, which is scary of course... but I think worth it if we get our baby. I don't want to worry about the money.

I may call our insurance company and try to convince them to pay for some of it. Has anyone tried this?
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Biomama: I think if it was me, I would go the conventional route as well. There really isn't much of a cost difference. Let me know if you are able to get the insurance company to budge at all. It might inspire me=)


DH thinks I should go through the HSG and then go from there. There is a chance that we will ahve to pay the entire 1300, but it could proove to be worth it in the end.

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songbird it always seems funny when a place local to me is a vacation destination for someone else I'm glad you enjoyed your trip and found it relaxing. What did you do in Harrisburg? I usually want to get through that city as quickly as possible

gumby it sucks when insurance does not cover IF. Hopefully they will at least cover your HSG since that does not have to be fertility related, right? I know my laparoscopy was covered and not billed toward our fertility allowance.

crystal-mommy Infertility is so much more difficult without the support of our partners. I hope your DH comes around and realizes how much you need him right now.

biomama I agree that the conventional IVF sounds more promising without a real significant different in cost. Still, it's a lot of money. Any chance you know someone who has meds left over from an IVF cycle? It could significantly decrease your out of pocket expense

As for me, I think I'm in the tww- the first in a while. How quickly I forgot the stress and obsession This is my first cycle post laparoscopy and I was extremely crampy around the time of ovulation- it felt like I had heavy stones just sitting in my lower abdomen. I've never had any physical symptoms of O, so it's new if nothing else. My LP is typically only about 10 days so I should know by late next week. If AF shows, I start the cycle tracking with my RE and I am really hoping to avoid all of that. I'm also trying to stay positive while friend after friend announces a new pregnancy. I think every mother in my DS's play school class is either pregnant or newly post partum. It's just so difficult sometimes.
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Just wanted to get my update in.
Finishing up my last pack of bcp. Have my b/l u/s on the 15th. Then I will start letrozole, then HCG trigger. Had my metformin raised to 1500/day and tolerating very well. This will be our first assisted cycle for TTC.

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Hi Everyone........how are you all doing? Well, AF showed up this morning...it's only day 20 since my last "weird" AF last month. DH and I are at odds with the plan for clomid and IUI this month (I know how you feel, crystal-mommy). I know he is still greiving (MIL passed recently) but now he is saying stuff like "I don't like prescribed sex.......don't think we should take pills to create a baby, etc." Very frustrating when after our visit with the RE he was all for it. ARRRGGGHHH!! Men!!
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don't think we should take pills to create a baby
My DH had similar feelings when I started taking Clomid. I explained to him that I wasn't taking drugs to get pregnant, I was taking them to get my body to do what it should be doing on its own (ovulate), and that seemed to make it better for him.

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Hi Everyone........how are you all doing? Well, AF showed up this morning...it's only day 20 since my last "weird" AF last month. DH and I are at odds with the plan for clomid and IUI this month (I know how you feel, crystal-mommy). I know he is still greiving (MIL passed recently) but now he is saying stuff like "I don't like prescribed sex.......don't think we should take pills to create a baby, etc." Very frustrating when after our visit with the RE he was all for it. ARRRGGGHHH!! Men!!

My DH said the same things when we TTC#1. I finally ended up saying to him that the reality of our situation was that we had to be willing to do whatever it took to conceive. In the end, it was me who had to be poked and proded over and over and all he had to do was give a sample here and then. The sacrifice on my part seemed like a lot more than on his part and because of that we have a son. With TTC#2, we have ruled out the male factor and all of the issues seem to be mine......so, I figure that as long as I am willing to go through with all of this physical stuff, he can not complain about when and how we have to BD.

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Can I hang out here? I was over in TTC land, but they still haven't added me and I guess this place is more appropriate for my anyway...

You need some background info or an introduction? I'm 34 and my DH Sean is 31. We are ttc our first. We started trying in June, 2007 right after I graduated with my bachelors degree in psychology. We are in the beginning stages of infertility testing. I've done one cycle of clomid so far and am currently in the tww. No verdict yet as to who is at fault.

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My DH had similar feelings when I started taking Clomid. I explained to him that I wasn't taking drugs to get pregnant, I was taking them to get my body to do what it should be doing on its own (ovulate), and that seemed to make it better for him.
OOOOHHHH!!! you are a smart woman!! never thought of putting it that way!! His famous saying "if its meant to be... it will happen naturally". My comeback, "Well, if that is true.. why do we have dr's and hospitals... ppl would still be dying from the common cold.. we have evolved for a reason!!" I have PCOS so obviously my body isn't functioning as it should be... not my fault. Which doesn't mean I deserve a baby any less than someone who can get preg everytime they even think of sperm!!

It is extremely frustrating when we only have a 2-3 day window to conceive each month.. my DH is hardly ever in the mood on those days. As soon as I start using OPKs his sex drive goes down hill quickly!! Every other day of the month I have to fight him off of me 2-3 times a day!

hope everyone has a good day!!
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Well, I think AF is on her way. : My temps are still high, assuming I even ovulated, but my cervix is getting high and soft again. . . a very good indicator (for me) that I'll start bleeding within a couple of days.

Now I need to decide if I want to start cycle tracking with my RE this month or give it another whirl on our own. I was so hoping that cleaning out the endo with the laparoscopy would be our solution. Of course it doesn't help that we will be out of town for several days early in my cycle. I don't know how often he needs to see me in the beginning.
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i am 29 y/o been trying to concieve for 3 years . Metformin didnt work and tracking didnt work. I dont ovulate i am overweight and using diet and excersize. Any ideas?

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Lola, hugs, I hope your dh spirits will be lifted soon, and he can soon look to creating life after the mourning the loss of one.

oregonduck, bol with your testing, hope you can get some answers and an excellent course of action. Baby dust to you!

Voltage, fingers crossed this will be your month.

organitarian, have you seen a specialist yet? Do you have PCOS, is that why the metformin? If so a great diet IMHO is the south beach diet, it works, and helps with insulin resistance.

For me, I hit the goal my RE said. I have now lost 37 pounds. I am getting nervous about our first month of trying. For those of you who used a trigger shot. How was it the first time? DH will be gone so I will have to give it to myself, getting a little freaked out about that.

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Thank you all for the kind words and the advice. DH has "mellowed" a bit since we had our argument. Although he says he is not up for iui this month (we have to drive 3 hours to the clinic) he says he IS willing to have me do the clomid and BD. Of course, we will see what he is like when the time actually comes to do it..........

Looking forward to next month being a "normal" one, where we actually get to do iui.

Good luck to everyone!
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My OB/GYN's nurse just called with DH's Cycstic Fibrosis carrier results, and they're negative!!!!!! :

Now I can finally be excited that I'm 7dpo with pretty excellent timing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even if we don't get pregnant this cycle, I'm so grateful to finally be ovulating.

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10 DPO here. I don't even want to test, but DH keeps asking me when I can test. Maybe I'll do it on thursday. I think I'm just feeling ambivilent because I've moved on already...

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Hey Ladies,

How is everyone holding up?

MeadowMom Congrats on losing the weight? What worked for you? I've lost 20 since January but really stalled over the summer. I need to get motivated again and start moving. I find it very difficult to get enough exercise in and feel lousy when I don't. Good luck with your first assisted cycle and giving yourself the trigger shot! My DH travels a lot too, so I expect I could be in the same boat eventually.

Lola88 I'm glad your DH is mellowing a bit. I hope he's ready and cooperative when the time comes to BD!

LibbyLou What wonderful news!! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you this cycle. I think I'm about 7 DPO as well.

Gumby74 How are you doing? Still planning the HSG?

crystal-mommy I can sympathize a bit with your DH. I'm rarely in the mood when we "should" BD either. It's very frustrating and emotional for both of us. Using the OPKs seems to make things worse around here too. I've not used them for a few months and now I'm wishing I HAD this month.

organitarian I am told I have PCOS as well, but my RE addressed my endometriosis first. If I don't ovulate on my own we will discuss medications to help with that. Losing weight is a good start but I'm not counting on it to be my solution. I've also considered acupuncture and will likely look for someone to supplement our efforts with the RE.

EastbayK :

As for me. . . I'm still waiting for AF to show. I know she will and I just want it to happen already. I'm supposed to visit my RE on the first day or two of my new cycle and now I'm worried that we'll be out of town when it happens- we'll be away for a long weekend. I'll be super annoyed if we are delayed a cycle of TTC because of the timing of AF :
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LibbyLou What wonderful news!! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you this cycle. I think I'm about 7 DPO as well.
Thanks! I took a peek at your chart, and we're actually cycle buddies.

I totally feel you on the exercise issue. Every night I set my alarm early so that I can get up and work out. Then every morning, I push snooze a few too many times and end up feeling guilty about it. I have such good intentions at night, but I lose all motivation in the morning.

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HELP!! My DH's doctor wants to put him on Zoloft. In my internet searches I have found studies that show where SSRI's like Zoloft cause low sperm count as well as chromosomal damage to sperm. When I called the RE, he said it was fine for dh to take it, no real evidence of damage. Do any of you know anything at all about this?? Any advice would be helpful!! Thanks.
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Voltige - We only spent a couple hours in Harrisburg. We took a tour of the capitol building, had lunch, and bought spaghetti bread at the Pennsylvania Bakery. The highlight of the trip was the Pennsylvania Rennaissance Faire, which was awesome and all kinds of fun.

I just noticed in your siggy that you have agility dogs? Do you run them at competitions? A friend of mine runs agility dogs, and it's a free and fun outing to go watch the in-town competitions for a few hours.

oregonduck - Welcome! I hope your stay here is short, and that you get the support you're looking for. My only advice as you go through infertility testing is try not to think of the problems as whose "fault" it is... it's not productive. It's both of your problem, and it's nobody's fault. Just keep repeating that to yourself and your dh, because it's easy to fall into the blame and guilt trap.

organitarian - welcome - I went ahead and added you but let me know if you want your description changed. There's another thread about PCOS on the infertility board - check out the resources it points to. soulcysters.net and the PCOS tribe are full of good information.

Lola - isn't it sad that an IUI month is now "normal" and one where we have sex is an "off" month? Crazy. As for the Zoloft issue... I don't know much about SSRI's, but maybe you can try it for a month and see what happens to the counts? If you're doing an IUI next month, they'll do a count for you... I only say that b/c if Dh's doctor thinks it's necessary and the RE says it's okay, most likely it'll be fine, but... I fully advocate doing whatever research you can!

LibbyLou - that's GREAT news!! I'm so happy for you!

Voltige, LibbyLou, and EastbayK, good luck in the tww!

As for me: IUI is scheduled for tomorrow morning. I'm nervous because the RE said that if it doesn't work this time she wants to discuss other options. She said we could continue trying this but that statistically our chances keep dropping with every try, so we should at least discuss other options.

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HELP!! My DH's doctor wants to put him on Zoloft. In my internet searches I have found studies that show where SSRI's like Zoloft cause low sperm count as well as chromosomal damage to sperm. When I called the RE, he said it was fine for dh to take it, no real evidence of damage. Do any of you know anything at all about this?? Any advice would be helpful!! Thanks.
I would be more worried about the sexual side effects. My DH went off SSRIs when we were TTC because he never wanted to have sex. If you are doing IUI it might not matter as much. I think Welbutrin (sp?) is suppose to be the better one for that. At any rate good luck!
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Thanks songbird for starting the new post!!! I'm away on vacation right now so I have been out of the loop, but thought I'd ask if my info could be edited at your convince. On hold with my IUI this month due to being away on vacation at the prime time, but have plans to get back on the wagon in Oct. Good luck to everyone else!!!!

After 5 failed IUI's & 6 failed IVF's we threw in the towel w/ ART and then got a NATURAL miracle BFP! Hoping and praying it is finally our take home baby!  Mother to our twins boys in heaven -lost at 22.5wks on 6/20/09 and 1 other little angel in heaven.

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I just noticed in your siggy that you have agility dogs? Do you run them at competitions? A friend of mine runs agility dogs, and it's a free and fun outing to go watch the in-town competitions for a few hours.
Yup! I train and run them in competitions. I used to do a lot more of it- almost every weekend. Now I am content with one weekend a month. We don't accumulate titles as quickly, but it's loads less expensive Dogs are a passion of mine. I'd love to find a way to turn it into a career one day.


Anyway, I was surprised to see my temp still up this morning. I don't know if I should be holding out hope or not. I was crampy yesterday but so far nothing yet today. I'm totally bitchy and PMS-ing though. I'll have to call my RE to see what I should do if I'm out of town when my cycle starts. I also want to know if I can enjoy some wine and other stuff at my Mom's surprise birthday party this weekend I'll happily go without if I get a BFP but I'll be :beyond belief if I decline and then AF shows the next day.
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Thanks for the welcome ladies!

Today is day 20 of my cycle and I have a day 23 progesterone test scheduled for this Saturday. I already know I make progesterone because I got a good result last month without the clomid, so I'm not exactly sure what they're looking for this time...

I'm trying not to obsess and think every pain and twinge is pg symptom (can't deal with the disappointment) but on day 15 I got a peak reading on my OPK (CBEFM) and had killer pains on my right side that night while at work--definitely not normal for me. We managed to dtd all weekend and now I can't help but wonder if I'm pg or not. I know all pains and symptoms are exaggerated x100 while on clomid, but I'm driving myself nuts here!!!

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