Thanks for all of the suggestions ladies...keep them coming.
I am at a good body weight and I eat generally well...really well compared to American standards so I am not thinking that is it either.
I had a lot go on since the birth of my DS with two hip surgeries and a fair amount of pain...and pain medications from time to time. I think it is largely the stress from all of that so I am thinking that once everything is back to normal that things whould start working out. I have heard of stress affecting your cycles, and I have had a fair share, but I had never heard of it affecting the cycles for so long...but like I said, i have had a lot of things go on and fairly quickly.
I go to see the RE on Monday to see what they have to say. I am terrified, to be quite honest. What if they say that I can't have another one? I would be so very heart broken.
I am thrilled to pieces that I have one child but I always thought that we would have more. I am not sure of the effects of all of the reproductive medications. I have always thought...even when we were having trouble to conceive with our first, that it is not such a great idea to be forcing my body to do something that it is not ready to...but, at the same time, I understand the lure. Here we are again facing the prospect of having to make the decision again, although we ended up conceiving naturally with the help of acupuncture the first time around, and I am a bit freaked out.
Which, if all of these issues that I am having with my body is from stress than this is certainly not helping! And i am not sure if it is jsut me...but there are babies EVERYWHERE!!!!!!