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#31 of 46 Old 03-29-2009, 01:55 AM
 
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Here are some more:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1...?dopt=Abstract

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12286905

http://www.andrologyjournal.org/cgi/.../full/28/5/635
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Dp is pretty good at getting out of dodge at the right time. Although I have been known to call it the "pull out and pray method"
It has been working for us for 6 years.
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I get this strange urge to tell him not to (pull out) sometimes when I'm fertile.

I don't see how anyone who charts actually doesn't have sex during the fertile period- that's like the only time I really WANT to have sex!
ditto for me.

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DH and I have used the withdrawal method for the better part of 10 years (along with the occassional condom and a 6-month stent with depro provera. No LOs yet. I think it's really worked for us because DH is the one who knows he's not been ready for children until now. Secretly, though, I've kinda wanted the method to fail,since we've gotten married, but it hasn't...yet! It doesn't matter though because we are going to start trying in August!:

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Withdraw is not a good idea if you are seriously trying not to conceive. Pre ejac does contain sperm I believe.

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My oldest was withdrawl. Oh and we used a condom and I was on depo. Oh yea also it was 2 days after I got off my AF. I guess it was meant...lol
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We have one My DH actuly bought a maternity shirt from Spencers thatsaid "proof the withdrawl method doesnt work" and gave it to me - but I never left the house in it we never considered our surprize an accident and I didnt want ppl to think that

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IMO, withdrawal can be very successful depending on the couple...

For DH and I, we have used it for nearly 9 years now, and have not had an "accidental pregnancy". My DS wasn't exactly planned, but on the night of Dec. 17, 2003, I knew they're was a good possibility I'd become pregnant, because DH decided he didn't feel like pulling out

My main complaint with withdrawal is reaching my own satisfaction! (If you get what I'm saying ) It seems like DH always has to pull out right when... Yeah. That's always frustrating

I see another "unplanned" pregnancy in our future because of the above! I guess that's how we'll plan our children

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i got my period back when dd was 11 months and have been using the withdrawal method ever since (so it's worked for almost a year).

after reading this thread though, i am so buying condoms in bulk next time i'm at costco

btw, poster above me: great taste! (look at our siggies)

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btw, poster above me: great taste! (look at our siggies)

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My only two children were withdrawal method babies
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The month we didn't use withdrawal is the month we got (intentionally) pregnant. It's been great for us!

It's 96% effective with perfect use (although for us, it's been 100%!). You can read more here:

http://vaginapagina.com/index.php?ti...-Out.29_Method

Have you seen the updated user agreement yet?
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Having withdrawal method baby with lover - been together 3 months and he's always pulled out on time......obviously this does not work as I'm giving him baby!

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Yes, my first son is a withdrawal baby he is three and I feel pregnant again now and it may be another withdrawal baby. ;-)

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Studies have said different things. What I've gotten from reading them is that some men will have no sperm in their preejaculate, but those that do usually have enough for withdrawal to not be effective at all. It depends on the individual's biology. If you've already gotten pregnant once while using it correctly, I'd say its not effective for you two.


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I get this strange urge to tell him not to (pull out) sometimes when I'm fertile.


I don't see how anyone who charts actually doesn't have sex during the fertile period- that's like the only time I really WANT to have sex!



ditto for me.

Totally me too. We conceived both of our daughters the first time we tried. We use withdrawal, fertility awareness, and condoms on fertile days because I get kooky and want don't want DH to stop lol.

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