I have been suffering from tremendous anxiety for the past 3 days due to strong pregnancy symptoms. I have 3 children, the youngest, 3.5 months old. I do not want to have any more children, at least, not any time soon. I have been nursing my daughter frequently, as well as my 2 year old, from time to time. My DH is active Army and is stationed in another state, and came home to be with us for a few days this past week. My menses has not yet resumed, but I'm not sure if I was ovulating or not. We have been using condoms, but on one occasion he didn't put one on until a few minutes after having sex. I have been feeling nauseous, light headed and all together out of it. My DH thinks I'm crazy to think I'm pg, but I can't ignore these strong signs. I think it might be too soon to take a pg test, since it has only been a week since we began having sex.
If I were to be pg, I would highly consider terminating the pregnancy, and it devastates me to even contemplate this option. I just can't put myself in a situation where I have no support from my husband (who will be deploying in the next few months) or family members nearby. I have 3 small children who depend fully on me to be at 100% for them. I have been researching medical v surgical abortion procedures, and am conflicted as to which would be the best option for me. I absolutely do not want to interfere with breastfeeding my baby. Does anyone have any experience dealing with elective termination and breastfeeding a younger infant? I just want to know how better to prepare myself in the case that I might be pg.