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#31 of 36 Old 06-15-2011, 09:50 AM
 
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I think I might be one of those late temp changing people -- I'm SURE I've O'd as far as CM and CP, but it will take a few days to get a solid shift (often I'll get a low plateau rise that isn't high enough to count). For a while I thought I just had a  short LP (10-11 days).  

P.S. That's my oops, too. BD on CD 8 when I usually O'd around CD 16 -- this time I think I O'd CD 14, so 5-6 days sperm survival.

 


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Yeah, it happens. My temp doesn't shift until 2 or even 3 days after ovulation. It is consistent in that regard.

 

I know that ovulation occurs 2 to 3 days before the temp rise because of peak fluid day and distinct pains.


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good to know...might explain 3 surprise pregnancies I've had ;)


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According to TAONFP 4th Edition, it can be 3 days before or after the temp shift, and it is well documented by many experiments that O can be 3 days before or after Peak Day.

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Isn't it funny that so many women think "right after my period" is the safest time?  After my dear oops DS we decided only AFTER O was safe, and no troubles since (knock on wood) ;)


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using with-drawl during a fertile time..  yup..  not a good idea.


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