Okay, i'll try to make a long story short. I've been with my man for awhile now and we don't wawant kids right now, but perhaps in a few years. The problem is with the child support he is paying his ex, we'll never be able to afford it. His ex managed to get him tagged with child support for a child who isnt even his, so he has to pay for two kids despite only one being his. And she has no remorse. All she wants is more money so she doesn't have to work and can stay home. Kids are nothing but paychecks to her. We can barely afford food and gas despite both of us working full time. I love him to death, but i am having a hard time coping with the fact that his ex has taken away us being able to ever support a kid of our own, yet she keeps popping them out and collecting child support from several men.
Any advice on what to do or how to cope? I'm losing my mind here. His lazy ex is taking away every chance i wanted with him and doesn't care.