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BC Failure... panicking

I've been using Saheli (centchroman) for nearly 2 years and have LOVED it. The pearl index for it is 1.3-1.6, so good odds right? Well, my period is about 4 days late and I tested this morning with a BFP. Eeeek! I am NOT ready to be pregnant! The timing in my life right now is really, really not good. I can't tell my mom or my BFF because they would both be THRILLED... and I'm not sure if I'm going to continue this pregnancy. I mean, I love kids, and definitely want to be a mom, just not yet! I'm perfectly old enough to be having kids... and my BF and I are extremely happy together... but I want more time to settle down with him, and financially prepare!

Now, I'm off to get a colposcopy done, with a brand new doctor, which is stressing me out too.

It might be awful to say, but I'm begging the universe for one of those, extremely common early miscarriages.
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Just a quick note to say I'm sending a virtual hug. Take care of yourself, no matter what you decided: Get enough sleep, drink water ... eat well.
If you are seriously considering ending this pregnancy I highly recommend talking to your ob/gyn or going to a local women's health clinic as soon as possible so you know your options and have time to make a decision without feeling rushed.
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