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#1 of 2 Old 01-02-2015, 10:56 AM - Thread Starter
 
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one and done?

at the end of the year, i like to go over with my husband what we see in the new year...we are both turning 35 in the new year and we have a 2 year old son.

i said i think i would like to have another baby or at least be pregnant in the new year and he said that he was happy with our family of 3. we talked about it all day yesterday and he seems pretty secure in his reasoning for our family of three.

Of course i can bring it up in a few months, but i am so shocked. never pictured my life with only 1 kid.

i am shocked and pretty upset about it....

any advice for women who have gone through this?
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We are having these conversations right now. I want 2, my wife thinks we can't afford to have 2 and we should stick with one and be more financially secure. I hope you can keep talking about it and find a solution that works for both of you. This is a huge decision. I have always wanted at least 2 children and to only have one would be a huge shift in thinking for me.



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