I only wanted one before we concieved, now we have our one little perfect angel, and I am content. I have no desire to have another, yes, money being one of the reasons, but that is far, far down on the list. We are perfect with one, we have a wonderful family dynamic, I think we are perfectly complete.
Now, my dh wants another, so here is where it gets tricky, but that's another issue entirely. He, nor his parents, family, some of my family, etc.....can believe that I do not want another. To them it's absurd! You'll change your mind, he'll be so lonley, how selfish of me....I've heard them all.
My dh and I have talked about it plenty, and my answer never changes-I do not want to have anymore children....but, if we ever had the money to do it, I would adopt a child in a heartbeat. This doesn't make any sense to anyone around me either....It's the whole, I do not understand why bringing another child into the world, when there are so many that need proper homes already situation, for me
. Unfortuantely, my dh doesn't feel this way, and claims he would never adopt a child.
So anyway, to answer your question, imo-no, I don't think that's crazy at all, and yes, I have felt this way. I think you're feeling this way for a reason, kwim?