A lot of things can change in a year or two. I got married when I was 20 and we where BROKE. But we made it. We had Emily when I was 21 and I worked part time until she was 18 months.
But we made it. The thing is, is that if your dad is still supporting him you do have to honor what he wants as hard as that is to you. Maybe being a SAHM isn't your best option right now. I would rather work and have my own independence (as I did) then be under the thumbnails of my parents. You are an adult, and you made adult decisions. Sometimes it's just tough. Don't mean to sound harsh, but maybe you should just suck it up for a while and do what you need to do to move on. Otherwise, what's the future gonna hold for you?
An example of this is that I have a friend who did this only they moved in with her parents. DH went to school and teaches private school and now has his masters. They now have 3 children and STILL live with her parents. She's 26 and her DH is about 27. He still can't support them and isn't very motivated to either because they have been living off her parents this long, what's a few more years?
Again, hope that didn't come off to harsh. Sometimes it's just tough being an adult.
Jennie: Working mother to 3 and loving wife to my hubby for over 12 years
Emily 10 Taylor 8 Logan 6