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I think it is rude, but usually find a reply that is equally uncomfortable. I was married, had DD1, divorced, then DD2 was a huge suprise with now DH2. Our upcoming DD3 was strageically planned out in every detail. Of course since DD2 was unplanned, people ask regularly if this one was planned. Depending on the person I usually go with something like "naw...we just planned on a few drinks, but this is where it seems to land us".....or if it is a total stranger (happened twice) I usually go with "heck no, I don't even know who this one's dad is"....of something equally as uncomfortable back. Granted, I am kind of a smart mouth by nature, but if someone wants to ask that, they are going to get a reply that fits the question. DH's buddy, after a few drinks at a function we were at, leans over and asks...."so was this one an ooops too?"...I was so pissed I whispered back "yeah...I am just hoping it is [DH]'s". The jaw drop there was well worth it.
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|Originally Posted by DeChRi
I think it is rude, but usually find a reply that is equally uncomfortable. I was married, had DD1, divorced, then DD2 was a huge suprise with now DH2.
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