Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Outside of Augusta, GA
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I got it a LOT with DS1. I mean, I get it. I was young(18). And we weren't married when we got pregnant. But yes, HE WAS PLANNED. And even now, when people do the math on things I can see the thoughts churning in their head, so sometimes I throw out, "And yes he was planned," because, really, I don't want people speculating that we 'oops' got pregnant, so oops, here we have a child, and oops, now we're gonna get married. Etc. That's just not how it happened and I think that idea is sort of disrespectful to our family, because it's so incredibly untrue.
With DS2, didn't really get asked. People had expected us to have another sooner, but we had problems conceiving a successful pregnancy, so it was delayed.