Which of these two birth options would you choose? - Mothering Forums

View Poll Results: Which of the options, as described in my post, would you choose?
Option #1: Good, close, midwife-run birth center (with doula if I choose) BUT with below-average hospital 20 minutes away as backup 15 83.33%
Option #2: Good, close hospital from the very beginning; doula comes along, but no midwife or jacuzzi 3 16.67%
Voters: 18. You may not vote on this poll

Thread Tools
#1 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 11:54 AM - Thread Starter
MrsSlocombe's Avatar
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 293
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

1)  Birth at a nice birth center with good midwives.  Actual water birth is not possible, but a private jacuzzi can be used during labor, you can walk around, eat and drink whenever you want, etc.  The midwives seem very sweet and the birth center has a good reputation.  I may or may not bring a doula to this birth center, per my own choice.  It is a 10-15 minute drive from my house depending on traffic.


The downside to this is that, in the case of a medical problem or a perception on the midwife's part that labor is not progressing quickly enough (they say there are no timelines, but it's about how the labor is progressing), my husband would have to drive me about 20 minutes to a hospital that is not well rated.  Its numbers, on a government website I found, are only a little below average, but it got horrible reviews on Google (for E.R. and billing department;  no reviews for maternity).  The midwife from the birth center would come along.  (Until recently, there was the option of going - even walking - to the good, close hospital mentioned below, but that is no longer possible for patients of this birth center.)


2)  Just start from the beginning at a better hospital, again about 10-15 minutes from my house.  Hire a doula, but otherwise have a traditional OB/GYN, hospital birth.  I have been to this hospital for non-birth procedures before, and liked it.  It is also better reviewed on the government website, and a little better on Google, as well.  Its general reputation in the community is good.  There would be no jacuzzi, though I don't yet know the rules about walking around, eating, etc.


Feel free to give a written answer, and/or just respond to the poll.  I don't need anyone to use the poll if they'd rather type something out.  Thanks.

MrsSlocombe is offline  
Sponsored Links
#2 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 04:31 PM
woodensandals's Avatar
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 31
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I would choose the birth center but I live in csection central so I'm really concerned about hospital births. 

woodensandals is offline  
#3 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 04:38 PM
zinemama's Avatar
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: from the fire roads to the interstate
Posts: 6,295
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I would check out the hospital polices and what they consider do-able during labor, and if it seems good, I'd go with that and a doula. Just because I am the kind of person who needs to have peace of mind and wouldn't want to be worrying (much less during labor) about possibly ending up at the bad hospital.
zinemama is offline  
#4 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 04:54 PM
Mom31's Avatar
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: America
Posts: 3,604
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I would choose the birth center... hands down if those were my only two options as in if a hb mw was unavailable to me.




Mom31 is offline  
#5 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 05:10 PM
AnkaJones's Avatar
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 310
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 5 Post(s)

I'm familiar with your area.  I would choose the birth center -- it's excellent and they will go with you and advocate for you if you are transfered.  In a true emergency, my understanding is that you're still going accross the street to the hospital you like. 


All of that said, if you are really concerned (and I have the feeling you are given the number of posts you've written on the subject), have you thought about looking at the other options in the area?  For example, the Pennsylvania hospital midwives and their birth center.  Delaware is a bit of a schlep, but they're  a great group.  It's probably better that you're comfortable rather than walking into it this concerned about the "what if"s, KWIM?


Getting back to your original question, given the c-section rate in our city and the very interventionalist OB culture, I'd stay with a midwife.



wife to DH, mom to 7/4/2011 and 11/6/13.

AnkaJones is offline  
#6 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 06:22 PM
LindyGirl's Avatar
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 181
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I would lean toward the birth center option. But I have a question: in a true emergency, you would be able to go to the closer hospital, right? The midwife would not force you to transfer farther away in the event of something like a placental abruption?

Mama to five babies. The newest one made her debut 7.10.12!

LindyGirl is offline  
#7 of 8 Old 11-03-2011, 07:41 PM
lizsky's Avatar
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 298
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)

I'd go with the birth center given those choices.


Also, I am not sure I'd rely too heavily on govt and google reviews that are not specific to Labor and Delivery.  Johns Hopkins is not far from me, and it is widely regarded as an excellent hospital in multiple areas.  However, its not a place I considered for birth after speaking to several doulas who attend tons of births, because it doesn't have the type of flexible L&D policies I was looking for (I wanted no IVs, eat & drink at will, move around at will, use of warm water (shower or tub) for pain management, intermittent monitoring).  The hospital where I delivered my daughter is not nearly as well known, but I heard multiple accounts from doulas and other moms about how the L&D department was supportive of natural birth and had more flexible policies.  (And in my experience it definitely was).  I'd recommend asking other naturally-minded mamas and doulas about the L&D experiences at the places you are considering.  I wish you all the best as you decide.  

Mom to 2 Daughters born in 2010 & 2012, and someone new Nov 2015
lizsky is offline  
#8 of 8 Old 11-04-2011, 04:56 AM - Thread Starter
MrsSlocombe's Avatar
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 293
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

Thanks, guys.  I, oddly, do not share the common dread of C-section, but if the birth is going to be natural, the amenities of the birth center do seem better so far.  I am touring the "good" hospital maternity ward soon, to help make my final decision.

MrsSlocombe is offline  


User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page

Posting Rules  
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Online Users: 10,101

70 members and 10,031 guests
ailsa JOHN , AlaskAnne , APGoddess83 , belltree , bmminc , ChesapeakeBorn , dani2015 , dayloveme , Emaya , farmermomma , Fox-fern , funfunkyfantastic , gooseberry , greenemami , japonica , JessicaS , JLUK , joandsarah77 , jul511riv , junipermuse , katelove , lilmissgiggles , LiLStar , Maac loce , mama2004 , mamadawg , MamaLeti , MamaMayme , marilyn612 , mckittre , MeepyCat , Milk8shake , MissMuffet , moominmamma , MylittleTiger , NaturallyKait , oaksie68 , OurGift , pers , rubelin , s&amommy , SandiMae , sarafl , Serafina33 , smilingprego , Smokering , sofreshsoclean , SplashingPuddle , Springshowers , Standing Up , Suzie007 , SuzyBelle , swetha123 , thekoz , Tigerle , TrishWSU , typebug , Viola , wassernixe , Wild Rose
Most users ever online was 449,755, 06-25-2014 at 12:21 PM.