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#1 of 9 Old 09-14-2012, 04:13 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I went to the ER last night with cramps and bleeding and praying it was just a normal part of SCH, and though the HCG level went up there was no heartbeat detected on the US.   I'm mixed between total denial and total grief.  Have no idea how to function.

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I'm so sorry, orthodoxmom :(


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I am so sorry.  Such an awful way to have your hopes and dreams dashed.  Hugs to you.  

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I am so, so sorry.
 

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I'm so sorry


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I'm so, so sorry this happened to you.  How devastating... My heart goes out to you.  ((HUGS))


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I'm so, so sorry. I've been reading your posts here and hoping for a good outcome. You are in my thoughts.
 


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I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the best as you heal.


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I am so, so sorry.  I've been there many times as well, and I wish I knew the right words for you...but I have yet to figure out what those are.  Just know you aren't alone, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.


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