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#1 of 4 Old 05-15-2013, 10:53 AM - Thread Starter
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my BF and i have been going out for 8 months now and when we 1st started dating he got the big vasectomy done . i have a little girl and he has 2 kids so i was done with the baby making stuff !! well he never went back to get checked out and im now a week and 2 days late . took to HPT and both came back negative ( took them on my 2nd and 4th day late ) could i have tested to soon . today im feeling so sleepy and my belly hurts . . this may sound crazy but i feel like i am . so im going to take another test this weekend and see what it has to say . dizzy.gif

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#2 of 4 Old 05-15-2013, 11:05 AM
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How stressful! Sorry you're going through this. As for being "late" but testing negative, it's entirely possible that you ovulated later than normal. Did you fly in the early part of your cycle, or have you been sick or stressed? I hope that feeling in your tummy is PMS, but if AF doesn't turn up, a test in a few days should help. Did you tell your BF you're late? Is he being supportive? Time to check that surgery worked!
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This would be a stressful situation! I echo every thing that Ea77 said.

I would think it is your period coming on if you tested negative 2 and 4 days past your cycle due date, but it could be you ovulated later.

Update us when you know!

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I tested negative twice and I was a week and a bit late. I would call your dr and get a bloodtest done to know for sure. With urine there is the possibility of a false negative but a bloodtest works differently and is more reliable. I never got a clear positive with a urine test this time and I'm almost 30 weeks now so I was definitely pregnant when testing. There are other possible reasons for your symptoms but I'd want to know for sure if I suspected pregnancy. Good luck!
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