I am almost 10 weeks pregnant and today discovered by chance that an old girlfriend from my DH's past, tried contacting him. I am so angry and have been in tears and shaking, which would not be as severe, I don't think , were I not pregnant. Now, after screaming at him and ending up shaking, I'm worried that I could cause harm to the baby or miscarry. I don't like how badly this has gotten to me. What I really don't like is his cocky attitude toward me and sauntering around like he's some sort of lothario. I'm really abhorring him right now and I'm resenting feeling this way this early in pregnancy.
Hugs to you!
My wife (31) and I (33) were married in 2006. We are proud queer mamas to W, born Oct 2013, conceived at home IVI via frozen WTBK donor sperm. Planning on TTC #2 starting in Sept 2015 through the same method. I am/will be the gestational mom.
Granolamommie, wow. That had to be very stressful. I'm glad that you did the right thing by leaving, even if it was not easy. You look really happy now :) I'm so happy your daughter was born safe & sound. Thanks everyone else. Good points, especially about wars, famines, etc. I now feel like an official whiner
Yes, given the hormones, I don't think any babies would be born if fights caused miscarriage! Mine certainly wouldn't have been.
DS born 6/03, DD1 born 9/06, DD2 born 10/10, DD3 born 4/14.
I worried about the same thing as I was shaking so hard during an argument while in 2 hours of traffic. I was the one driving and screaming at my husband. I was 9 weeks at the time and baby is 3 months now and very healthy and laid back. Good luck.