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#1 of 8 Old 07-07-2014, 01:56 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Taking Antidepressants while Pregnant

Hi, I've been browsing the postpartum depression board and feel I have many of the symptoms others discuss...except I'm entering my second trimester. I've battled depression for years in the past and now feel (finally) ready to admit that this is not a battle I can win w/out help. I know friends who stopped taking medication while they were pregnant, and I may hold on until after, but being pregnant is raising a host of issues I am having trouble dealing with, not to mention insomnia (I'm writing this at 4:00 AM.). I'm going to start seeking a new therapist tomorrow but definitely want to go back on medication. I'm concerned about breastfeeding, all of it. Has anyone else had experience with this? Thank you.
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My mental health challenge is anxiety. & unfortunately there is not a safe anti anxiety med to take during pg (or I've been told). I would definitely talk to your OB/ midwife about meds & would look into a CB therapist since you are feeling so bad & since depression rarely improves once baby is here. Hugs mama!
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I saw this in new posts and want to suggest seeing a counselor but holding off on medication until after the baby is born. My cousin was prescribed anti-depressants by a doctor who said they were safe and her baby came out needing a feeding tube for four years. IIt's my understanding that medications aren't studied on pregnant women for ethical reasons so safe is really just the opinion of the doctor not something that has statistical relevance in this case.
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My sister was on some type of medication for depression when she was pregnant. When she wasn't taking it, she didn't trust herself, so I can't blame her for taking it. However, my nephew had a lot of problems when he was born. He was in the hospital for a few weeks and most of it she couldn't even hold him. His breathing was constantly really rapid for a long time and the only reason they could decide was because of the medication. He's doing a lot better now, but it was very stressful and sad. Try the therapist and ask for help for ways to deal with the depression and anxiety. I often struggle with insomnia because my brain won't shut up. They always say not to watch TV, but I usually watch the same movie every night while laying in bed and it helps me go to sleep. It distracts me enough to not think so much, but I've seen it so many times it's not entertaining me too much either.
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I'm sorry you feel bad. I have been depressed a couple of times when not pg, but not bad enough to need medicine, just therapy. But this time and the last time I was pg, I was/am depressed. I never feel quite like myself and withdraw socially, plus I usually have some self-evaluative life crisis ("I've irreparably screwed up my life," etc.) I can usually fall asleep but wake up often. Anyway, despite having been depressed both pg and not pg, my depression did lift after birth. I think my brain just really doesn't like pregnancy hormones.

There are a lot of articles about it if you google prenatal or antenatal depression. I have no information on the safety of various drugs, though the articles I read did seem to say they were generally safe. Obviously people here have had different experiences, so it is worth investigating and deciding what you can live with.

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Just to update—I'm trying out a few new therapists this week and already feel better knowing I'm doing something about the depression. It's amazing what a difference it makes just to take those initial steps to find help. I should also leave room for the possibility that I may not need antidepressants (and will not be taking them while I'm pregnant, since I'm still functional and relatively emotionally balanced). I just want to feel happy and excited about having a baby rather than anxious and fearful for her future...but that is a journey that requires a lot of hard work and pharmaceuticals are only part of it. I'm motivated by wanting to be the best mother I can be, and by being open with myself about my issues I think I stand a better shot of doing so. That last sentence is inspired by wanting to do the opposite of what my parents do, which is to be very secretive and repressed about their mental health problems—especially my dad. That said, I have terrific parents, but they are of a generation that believes you can and should just "snap out of it," and now I know better.
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It sounds like you have a great plan in place. I also wanted to mention that there are alternatives to anti-depressants for moderate depression. Exercise, for example, actually outperforms anti-depressants much of the time and it's super important during pregnancy. Light therapy and fish oil supplements have also been shown to have a significant impact on mood. Perhaps working with your new therapist on some healthy habits like exercise will help you feel more optimistic. And if after birth you find you need more help, I know quite a few people who have been on anti-depressants while nursing. If you need the help, take it. Postpartum depression is nothing to mess around with. But since you said you're doing ok for right now, I would suggest talking with your therapist about these other options to see if something helps you feel a little more excited about the coming baby.

I struggled with depression in my first trimester with my daughter and it was really lonely. I didn't understand why I couldn't get excited about something we had planned and tried for. It lifted in the second tri, but that first tri was a scary time. Good luck.
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I think you have a great plan too! Best wishes mama!
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