someone to clean the damn house! if you don't have a relative willing to do it, then someone should buy you some time with a local service. i know all i did that first month was nurse, and the house went to hell until my friend's mom came to stay with us.
it's hurting me to post that last link, because there's a couple things i REALLY want from her, but we are so poor that i have been returning christmas presents for grocery money, so there's no way i can do any shopping right now. so better to share this aweseom link so some other momma can benefit and the WAHM can make some $, right?