Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Minneapolis USA
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Not dreamin' of the ladies myself, over here, but in general, yeah, I'm having much more lurid thoughts & dreams in general. I have thought about my dreams and have come to the conclusion that for me, it is more about realizing that I am a mama, and I am sexual, and I am attractive--gaining 20 pounds and carrying another human notwithstanding.
Think about WHAT is happening in your dreams, maybe less about who or the gender of who.
FOR example, I dreamt that a guy I had a crush on in high school was sort of resting his head on my lap, looking up at me with an adoring look, and the strange thing was even though the actions were totally non-sexual, I would describe the aura of this moment of the dream AS sexual.
Now, instead of thinking, oh crap, I guess I secretely want to leave my husband and get it on with this dork from high school, I realized that for me, it meant, yeah, in general, men are attracted to women, guys I may have liked are the types of guy that would find me attractive, my motherly belly and breasts ARE also kinda sexy, and a head in my lap completely representative of my nurturing capabilities as a mama, but the man's gaze at me was pretty lusty, so I can be sexy, too--and not just to my dh, but to menfolk in general.
Another take on things--one school of thought on dream interpretation says that the people in our dreams really represent ourselves (unless it's a big-deal peson, like a spouse or child) esp. when it's "a friend in my dream" or "there was this person"
Maybe the chicks in your dreams are YOU, in some way. Again, not a subliminal desire to go out and lez it up!