I've experienced the same post-orgasm tightness. Sometimes it feels like a slight contraction, and aches a bit too.
Since being pregnant, I've also experienced spontaneous orgasms for the first time--usually while sleeping. That's been pretty wild. I must say, though, that I'm far more interested in self-lovin' these days. Relations with my DH are often uncomfortable.
lol...the vibrator thing never really interested me...I'll just wait and live vicariously through you guys for now ...I feel like by the time we finally get together I won't know how to maneuver with whatever my size is
You don't need a vibrator for that either... for me it's mostly about clitoral stimulation ---all you need is a finger that doesn't tire easily
Great thread Thanks for bumping!
Sphinxy I am unfortunately in the same boat as you. It builds up then it just disappears! I try to get it back but its a no go. SO disappointing
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After a 2 year fertility struggle - Baby girl is here! Jan 8th 2014
2 Boxer Furbabies Buddha and Tootsie
I seem to have a mixture of it all, but like the OP, I do seem to feel "awkward" or "uncomfortable" about it afterward and not go for it as often as I might like. Sometimes I have the stronger O, sometimes there's the intense build-up but I can never quite get there (I think this part is probably a bit of a mental block knowing what will come afterward). It's irritating that it holds me back - because I always have a much higher libido during pregnancy, once I get past the "morning" sickness.
I'm 18.5 weeks now and had my first one in a while and I definitely noticed the tightness more than before.
It's ... Awkward and distracting in a way but not a bad thing.
This made me chuckle because my experience was the exact opposite. So I guess it is different for everyone.
its my first pregnancy and i just have no clue.
many thanks B.
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