When I open up the home page, it says that I have 3 messages (0 new) but when I open up my box, there are only two there and I have only read two but I have sent one. Is it counting the one I sent as one of my three? I feel like I'm ignoring one of my private messages. Don't want any to go unread.
It's counting ALL of your messages, including your Sent ones. But you won't see the Sent messages unless you go to that folder and click on the Show Messages From menu and choose "the beginning" so that all sent messages will appear. And those sent messages count toward the total allowed saved which is 70. Once you hit 70 messages in your box, members will not be able to PM you until you empty your PM box of some or all of your saved messages.