My other thread was locked so I couldn't respond...
anyway, "It doesn't completely but this is Mothering, it isn't meant to be a high drama board."
doesn't really answer the post I wrote (which took me hours, by the way, I have a 17 month old).
The drama statement from me was a joke, since I am a SAHM. I meant interesting, or lively, or whatever. "Heated" to me means something that SHOULD be discussed, not disappear.
Anyway...I'm sad my thread was cut off. Oh well.