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TTC #1 My chart: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/329153
Homeschooling mama to 6 year old DD.
This is just my opinion, but I'd back off.
You have a wonderful husband. He is on board and supporting you despite his fears. Yes, in an ideal world he would not have those fears and be 100% comfortable. But all you can really ask for is what you've already got, I think.
Chances are extremely high that your birth will go great and THEN he will be 100% sold on it. He's allowed to have his doubts, though I would object if he were pushing those doubts onto you. But it sounds more like you're pulling it from him, rather. I would stop asking him how he feels about it and just appreciate his support. Feel free to reassure him, though - you can tell him "oh, I was reading today that [insert reassuring statistic or fact here]" and I'm sure that will help. So I don't mean stop talking about it. But just stop asking him to be 100% comfortable, when he's not, and when he won't until it's done and over and it went great.
But he did ask for articles, books and videos he can watch to prepare himself and I don't really know of anything other than business of being born.
I'm not asking him to be 100% comfortable nor do I expect it. But he did ask for articles, books and videos he can watch to prepare himself and I don't really know of anything other than business of being born.
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