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Originally Posted by MamaTaraX
Can you find a doula?
Personally,if he doesn't want to be involved int he birth, don't force him to be. He'llbe far less useful if he's distant and unattached to the process. I really just wanted to offer you s
"Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift." -- Mary Oliver
Originally Posted by AllisonR
All this stuff you arre saying to us, have you said to him? Many men have to be told what to do, they don't just "get it."
"Yeah like I WANTED to do it that way...Like I WANTED to be totally emotionally abandoned by the father of my child and care providers...Hell this time I dont even have a Cat to keep me company or put counterpressure on my pelvis. Just because I *CAN* do it by myself doesn't mean I *WANT* to do it by myself.. ... I'm extremely hurt and extremely upset. ... how the hell is he able to support me when he's busy keeping DD occupied? How is he gonna be able to support me when he's bathing DD and putting her to bed?
Tell him all this. Print it out and give it to him. Then tell him to think about it 24 hours before he replies.
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