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Old 08-24-2006, 02:28 PM - Thread Starter
 
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i'm interviewing a midwife today for my HBAC and i haven't given much thought to what i should ask. i'm totally unfamiliar with the standard questions or things i need to know about her practice. does anyone have any suggestions? so far i've come up with:

1. what is included in the fees? what will i need to provide?
2. at what point in my labor will you or your assistant come to my home?
3. what is your hospital transfer rate?
4. what experience do you have with VBAC?

... after that, my mind draws a blank. i know there are other things i should ask about but it's too early to think and i've got morning sickness to boot!
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"How many clients do you have due in any 4 week period, and what is the plan if I go into labor while you're with another laboring client?"
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AHH. of course! thank you! i really am out of it today.
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Do you have guidelines or restrictions about who can give birth at home?
What is your definition of "high-risk"?
When do I call you?
How would you handle a hemorrhage?

eating drinking, moving, blood tests,

What is your back-up system during pregnancy and labor—when you go on vacation, are sick or with another mother?
Have you ever missed a birth? If so, what were the circumstances?
Are you available 24 hours a day at all times?

Prenatal Care

What are your expectations of clients during pregnancy?
Can you recommend or will you loan to us appropriate books , videos, internet sites, etc. to help us prepare for homebirth?
Do you require or recommend that my husband and I take a childbirth education class or attend pregnancy discussion groups?
What do your checkups consist of?
Do you allow the mother to go past 42 weeks and still have a homebirth?
What are your standards for preeclampsia?
Do you come to my home any time before I go into labor?


Hospital and Obstetrician

What situations do you consult the Obstetrician for?
What problems or complications in pregnancy would mean that a physician would become my primary maternity caregiver?
Under what circumstances do you transfer to hospital?
What is your percentage of hospital transfers?
What is your Cesarean rate? What are the most common reasons?
What would be the plan of action if a transfer to hospital were necessary?
What care would you give me if I need to transfer?
Would you stay with me in the hospital? In the operating room? For how long after the birth?


General Labor

What do you perceive your role to be during my labor?
What are your expectations of clients during birth?
What equipment and supplies do you bring to a birth?
How do you handle emergencies?
What natural comfort techniques do you provide?
What pharmaceutical drugs, homeopathics and/or herbs do you use at births?
What is your usual approach to a labor that is progressing slowly?
How often do you listen to baby during labor?
How many people are you comfortable with being present at the labor and birth?
How do you feel about having a doula at a homebirth?
How much time do you allow for the delivery of the placenta?
What is done with the placenta once its delivered?
Do you allow the placenta to be delivered underwater?
What is you episiotomy rate?
What happens if my perineum needs stitching/suturing?
What supplies do I need for the birth? Where can I purchase those supplies?
Do you help with cleanup?
How long do you stay after the birth?

How do I obtain the baby’s birth certificate?
How often do you come to see me after I give birth?
What do these visits include?
How often will I visit you after the birth?
What do these visits include?
Why are they important?
Do you examine the baby at any or all of your visits?
What does the examination include?

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oh, you are fabsulous! thank you SO much for that list. i'm printing those questions off right now.
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I asked a lot of "situation" questions. like what would you do if ...
that gave me good ideas about their philosophy and approaches.

here's my topic from way back http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=222838

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what a lot of great ideas! thank you all!

here are my scribbled notes i've jotted down with some of my biggest concerns. i'm interviewing a couple practices soon, and i'll definitely be adding some more q's based on this thread!!

due date determination? transfer of care?
AROM, s&s?
VE during pg and l&d?
under what circumstances would an induction be in order
how often do you like to check heartbeat during labor
how do you think the pushing stage should be managed?
what prenatal tests do you recommend?
transfer rate? episiotomy rate?
back up?
cord clamping and cutting?
GBS?

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Subbing for all the great questions to ask

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I thought some of you might find my list of questions to ask midwives when you are deciding on which one will be your care provider useful. It has some questions I didn't find on any other list I came across. Here it goes, hope it's of some use to someone:

How many births have you attended?
How many internal checks do you normally perform?
Do you have a problem using a fetalscope instead of Doppler most of the time?
If you are sick or otherwise unavailable during my labor, who will attend to me?
How many assistants do you normally bring to the birth?
Who are your normal assistants?
What is your hospital transfer rate (or, how many times have you had to go if it's low)?
Does your rate include transfers that occur during labor, or all transfers, including conditions that develop before labor? If it includes all of them, do you know a breakdown of before labor/during labor transfers (just trying to get a feel for how many moms transfer during labor)?
What is your typical transfer, one that requires intervention, or one where the mom desires it?
What is your c-section rate?
What hospitals have you transferred to? (The closest to us is South Austin Hospital)
What is your favorite hospital to transfer to?
Do you stay with me after the transfer and offer support for my decisions the best you can?
If I develop a condition that makes me high risk, do you have a doctor you normally use to transfer my care to? Do you also try to use this doctor for transfers during labor?
What is your cut-off for considering a baby to be premature and requiring a hospital birth?
What happens if I go past 42 weeks?
What conditions make me high risk (GD, etc)? Do you have herbal protocols to try to follow for these conditions before labeling a client as high risk (GD, preeclampsia, etc)? At what point would placenta previa make me high risk?
What are your normal guidelines for weight gain, or do you just stress good nutrition?
Do you deliver breech babies?
What do you try to turn a breech baby?
How long are you willing to wait for a baby in a bad position to change positions before labelling the pregnancy high risk?
What percentage of your clients tear?
What is your protocol to prevent tearing? Would you mind incorporating some of the stuff from my last midwife if I get exact details?
How many 3rd or 4th degree tears have you had? Up to what degree do you suture? How many episiotomies have you performed?
How long are you willing to let a client push, or do you base it solely on the baby's stress level?
Are you willing to use alternative protocols for Strep B such as grapefruit seed extract?
Do you have a protocol to help prevent me from being positive for Strep B?
Do you have a problem waiting for a while after the placenta is delivered to cut the cord?
What protocol do you use to stop excessive bleeding after delivery?
Have you had experience breaking the clavicle if it ever becomes necessary during a dystocia incident?
Have you had experience with cord prolapse?
Do you have any special things you do after a birth such as an herbal bath?
During labor, how active are you in checking the client, etc? During the last labor, for most of the time, my husband and I preferred to labor alone in a separate room for the most part (until pushing), I suspect it might work out the same this time, is that okay?
If my water breaks early again, and the baby's head is not high, then I don't desire anything but gentle herbal labor stimulation (NO castor oil). Am I an automatic hospital transfer after 24 hours, or can I sign something that allows me to go longer?
What equipment do you normally bring to the birth (birthing stool? blow-up pool? oxygen? ambu-bag? pitocin shot?)
Under what conditions would you artificially rupture the amniotic sac?
Do you do the required newborn screening bloodtests, or will I need to see a doctor for this?
What is your fee?
What happens with your fee if I have to transfer out of your care?
Do you file with insurance? Have you had any experience filing with Aetna PPO?
Do you require that I take a childbirth education class?
Have you had any bad outcomes for the baby or the mother? Please explain them.
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Thanks yall. just what i was looking for...i have my first interview tomorrow!

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thanks so much for this thread!!! It was sooo helpful!

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wow this is a great thread- thanks!

Emily, WOHM to Joshua (05) River (08) HBAC,  Rylee (09) HBAC and Levi (coming 8/11) planning another HBAC 

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do you have a website?

What is your bf experience/training? Can you refer me to someone if a problem does come up? (LC backup?)

what is your experience/training with herbs, homeopathics, and other alternative remedies? (traditional wisdom, specific course, read one article one time??)
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Thanks for this list! I'm interviewing a midwife on Wednesday and was just starting to compile my list of questions. This pretty much covers it!
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so many great questions! I didn't ask a fraction of those when I interviewed my midwife, I just went with my gut, which turned out great. I'm pregnant again and get to use the same midwife.

but, I will definitely keep lots of those questions in mind for a time when I may need to switch midwifes!
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Great lists of questions provided. It's good to ask those questions, but it's also good to go with your instincts and trust your feelings. What I found was that all of the midwives in my area answered my questions pretty much the same way and that, ultimately, what mattered the most was that I found someone with whom I felt comfortable and someone in whom I felt confident. I followed my instincts, and I was very happy with the outcome.
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What a great list! Thanks for compiling it!
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Wow! Great questions- I now feel better prepared as to what to ask.
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Thank you everyone for the extensive list of questions/suggestions to ask when interviewing a midwife.
Now I just need to figure out how to find one and if my insurance will cover it. My husband is military, I am set on having a Home birth and until recently just assumed I'd have to save up and pay for it myself but somewhere I saw posts that said it may at least be partially covered (I am trying to find that discussion, I am new to mothering discussions and haven't quite figured out how to look for a specific topic).
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These questions are great, but I can picture myself feeling very uncomfortable going through such a long list -- how do careporivders normally react?
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These questions are great, but I can picture myself feeling very uncomfortable going through such a long list -- how do careporivders normally react?
I was thinking the same thing! We had our interview today and I took a list of questions....maybe about 20 or so. I think that's good enough to get a feeling on someone, YKWIM? Then I'll use this list to ask furthur questions along the way. I mean, I do need to know if the MW or assistants need us to keep the pets elsewhere but that's not a dealbreaker for us !

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Here is a link to a site that has a list of questions you can ask a m/w...

http://www.familymidwifery.com/interview.html
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heres another good list


http://www.mothersownbirth.com/quest...20midwives.pdf

I am going through interviews right now too Its a hard pick!
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For my first pregnancy, we interviewed a few different people and only had to ask a couple of questions to get a "feel" for the MWs. To one of them, we'd asked, "how do you feel about DH catching the baby?" and her answer wasn't bad, but the way she delivered her answer was so off-putting that we ruled her out almost immediately.

So you don't have to have a ton of questions, and you don't have to go through them all to get to know a person.

But it's very important to know what their medical skills are, what their medical back up is (if any), and how they handle transfer of care. Some of that will depend on how MWs are treated in your area.

Good luck choosing!
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We interviewed a midwife today for transfer-of-care and I was so impressed when DH asked what her examples of the most positive homebirth experience vs. the not-so-ideal homebirth experience. (Had he not asked this question, we wouldn't have found out how strongly she felt about aiding us in finding the beauty of our own natural birth process and how open she was to being as hands-off as the situation and our comfort zones dictated. We also wouldn't have found out that she hasn't had an infant or maternal mortality, but statistically it will likely happen to her as a care provider in her career. She talked about the possible situation with such compassion and empathy that I knew she would be a good match for us.)
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One that's a little unusual, but I found very helpful in assessing a midwife's philosophy (as well as opening up the conversation to the more emotional side of the topic) -

What made you become a homebirth midwife?
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: subbing for when i have time to copy these.

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does anyone know sum midwifes phone numbers I have sum q and none in my area
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